I am planning to ask my g/f to marry me and her best friend comes up and around 2*30 am and says it is important come over real quick so i head over and there she is wearing lingerie and has a glass of champaigne i felt really uncomfortable and turn to leave when she grabs me and pulls me back and sticks her hand down my pants, i tell her to not do this to her friend and push her away then leave later on in the day i tell my g/f and she phones her friend who of course denies it and then turns to me and calls me a j,e,r,k, saying i am attention seeking and just dumb then she leaves and when i phone her she says we are over, now if you read my other question about me getting drunk and accidentally with no intention to slept with a nother girl you may think serves me right but i love her and cannot stop thinking about her should i move on?
2007-01-08 20:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by Life101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow what a fantasy
2007-01-08 20:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First I'd say hold off on proposing. The two of you obviously have trust issues. Did the best friend call your cell phone or house phone that you'd have some proof that she'd call at 2:30 in the morning which is odd? Listen I'd explain to your gf how you feel about her but also explain and stand firm that this is the behavior her best friend has displayed and your not going to tolerate it. I'd even consider confronting the best friend with your gf present. If she still doesn't believe you...I'd seriously consider moving on. In a marriage there are so many larger issues than this and if she's willing to automatically side with another party over you than what's going to happen in the future?
2007-01-08 20:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by melly12_00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your GFs mate was jealous of the relationship and set out to destroy it one way or another. Write a letter to your GF explaining everything, and leave the decision to her. Say you'll wait a certain length of time for her to come back to you, like 30 days and if she doesn't then just accept that its over. She'll realise one day that her mate is a sore loser and she'll have to live with whichever decision she decides to make
2007-01-08 20:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with your Problems, this way. You ain't a Kid, any more. Get the Friend to see that she's off-settin' the Course of History. it's you and your intended. If she's gonna believe the Friend. Then she can't be around in the future. Have respect for yourself. As well as the one you love.
2007-01-08 20:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you go to your gf's best friends place at 2.30 in the morn? does she not have friends of her own that she can talk to in an 'emergency'. the fact that u went there just shows how dumb you are so u deserve to be dumped, it was prob a test set up by your girl to see if u really love her
2007-01-08 20:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She got some revenge for you sleeping with someone else.
She set you up so she had a reason to dump you.
If you still want her, you can try to talk to her. It is up to you.
Otherwise, Don't cheat on the next girl you are with.
2007-01-08 20:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sound like a part in a movie i saw,but if it was true when the girlfriend called, you should have called up the fiancee an the two of you should have gave her a little surprise
2007-01-08 20:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy.
2007-01-08 20:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by tonycharms05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the gf and go back to her mates place at 2:30am, you're on a winner.
2007-01-08 22:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-01-08 20:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you should have just done her friend huh????
but you won't be making that mistake again!!!
2007-01-08 20:17:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋