I'm in in my mid-20's. I work at a job and sit a cubicle all day.
There is a woman who works at my a job. She's older than me. MUCH older. I think she's in her late 50s or even early 60's.
She's a petite, cute asian woman who could clearly be my grandmother. However, she has aged very well. Her appearance is more eloquent and demure than it is "hot." She has a GREAT personality to boot. She laughs at my jokes, and is sort of like the den mother to everyone who works at the company. She's really very cute, and is very motherly.
I think I'm in love with her. But at the same time she's probably 3x's my age. Oh god why? Maybe she just psychologically reminds me of the comfort and warmth a mother/grandmother can provide... but I also feel somewhat physically attracted to her as well.
I don't know what to make of it. I'm definately NOT going to try to initate anything with her.. OF COURSE... and will meet someone my own age...
but why am I so attracted to her?!
2007-01-08 20:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u answered ur own question when u sed it could be because it reminds u about the comfort of ur mother or grandmother. u could love her like a mother or grandmother and thinking about it could have made u feel like u find her physically attractive.. ur doing the right thing by not doing nething with her and knowing that u will find sum1 ur own age. good luck
2007-01-08 20:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear... maybe you miss your mum or granny. please dont take it hard but i'm sure it's only a symphathy. it's a very thin line between love and symphathy. i dont know you childhood and background but i have two opinions.
1st
Your mum and or granny cares and adored you sooooo much that you became a spoiled young boy. And now in your daily rutiny inside a cubicle, you found some... lets say... warmth made by her.
2nd
Maybe your Mum and or granny dont care about you at all OR even you never met them at all. so her figures will attract your inner sense of longing. You captured your mum and or granny on her.
Most important is, dont let your emotion flow to the wrong way... coz it will hurt you both. try to look outside the box and breath fresh air for a while, think clearly and try to separate symphathy with love. i know you can do it, guy!!!
2007-01-09 04:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sort of like that but mine is only by 10 years so just see how she is and if she is attracted to you
2007-01-09 04:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by blober85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have answered your own question----it is not an uncommon dilemma. I think you are smart not to get involved. Very mature way of looking at it. Good luck
2007-01-09 04:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you already answered your own question...
what about looking this way, i'm a 32 year old asian woman :-P
2007-01-09 04:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by ethannadinemariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are either a sick man or no young ladies love you.
2007-01-09 04:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe u wana to have some motherly love ? i dont know . .. or maybe she's simply charming ..being old doesnt mean she has lost it you know ....
2007-01-09 04:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attracted to her because you are sick and you like grannies.
2007-01-09 04:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is she your mom?
2007-01-09 04:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Roaddogg 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋