here 's my strory .. iam now devastated because my best friend's wife got a pregnant and i think it is my child... and i checked that with her by taking examnation in the hospital . but the worse thing is that she told him that she got prgnanat with his child so he is really happy about it that makes me so sad.
anyway , i got up courage to tell him but i gave up because she and i had sex so many times since the first day . i mean ,while he was out of the town for his business trip , i came on to her .
i was really trying to resist the greed to have her but i couln.t ..
since then , i came on to her so many times while he was not at home and ..at first , she rejected me but as time passes , she has been tamed ..i mean we are really enjoying having sex . i even heard about her preganancy right after we had sex..
what do i do???... he will kill me if i tell the truth..
help me!!
2007-01-08 19:44:39 · 12 answers · asked by sexguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey she's the one whos married and deserves ALL the consequences and unfortunately is going to pull you down with her.
2007-01-08 19:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man!!!....your "BEST" friend seems to be happy with the idea and havent notice anything about the dates, so the right thing to do is to show responsability for your actions and both of you tell him the truth and see what turns out when the baby is born. Or you can just let him live with the lie and you will always have on your concience that you have a baby and you cant even proclame to be the father.
2007-01-09 03:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Happy hippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and take your beating. Then you and it can be together and leave him alone. What's funny is after he leaves her yall won't last. She won't want you any more. So you destroyed a child's family before it is even born. She gave in so she is just as guilty as you. He is not your best friend. You deliberately sought out his wife until you had her. Sabotage is of the enemy. You will get no sympathy here.
2007-01-09 03:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably kill you. That being said. You owe it to your friend, the unborn child, and even yourself. To just confess to it. Chances are the friendship will be over. But at least you'll be able to see yourself in a mirror in a couple of years. The friendship was over the moment you slept with his wife. You obviously didn't respect him and the bond he and his wife had. I'm not saying you're the only one to blame, it takes two to tango. And his wife is just as much to blame. And if I were your bestfriend I'd be even more mad at her. But that's me.
2007-01-09 03:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Robert B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, what kind of "friend" has sex with his wife? I wouldn't even think about touching my friend's wife or girlfriend. That's just wrong.
Second off, tell him. Sure, he might kill you (not that you don't deserve a beating), but if you don't tell him and he finds out later, he WILL kill you. Cut your friendship off and go home and move on.
2007-01-09 03:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest. This could be your child! are you willing to pass this off on him and not take responsibility? How do you think he will feel when he finds out when the kid is 5 yrs? You need to tell him right away
2007-01-09 03:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real father of the child needs to step up...for the sake of the child!
2007-01-09 03:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope its a girl and wait 18 years.
2007-01-09 03:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by Omniscience 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the right thing and fess up. And learn self-control, because that's not a valid excuse
2007-01-09 03:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go fly a kite. Its sooo much fun.
2007-01-09 03:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋