they insult badly and hit my mother and sister.i have got a .he is very very angry and his wife. they insult us all the time even my parents and they reason for that is :they want more money and so on... for example they say sell your hause and give us money .they are very bad and we cant tolerate them ... what can i do?
2007-01-08 19:35:19 · 6 answers · asked by arya112004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call the police...
2007-01-08 19:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is SIMPLY a GREEDY BULLY who would wimper if others knew.
Even though your mother loves him, she might be affraid. Don't be too affraid to call POLICE. But before you do find someone who knows handy work and can put new locks on. Also use your computer to log all types of things that you can think of that he has done or said. Tell your moms friends and realatives. Make her a doctors appt. and tell HER DOCTOR in person so that it is on record.
When you call the police, ask them (ON THE PHONE) where to get an order of protection. If it makes you feel safer, after locking up the house, go somewhere for a week or take her to your house. DON'T KEEP IT A SECRET!
Mom did that for so long and when I told her friends what he was doing, they werent sure to believe me. They were more on SWEET brother side than moms. And shw was their freind.
For GODS SAKE, when police ask if you wanna PRESS CHARGES say YES.
My mother didn't and now she is dead. I'm not kidding. that's why I can't sleep and I'm answering you.
When I called the police for my mom. she was affraid because he was standing in the house with her and didn't press charges. Police had the nerve to say that "she brought it on herself" cause of all the times that she covered for him to keep him outta trouble.
Don't tell him that if he doesn't stop, then you are gonna . . . JUST DO IT RIGHT NOW.
Go to her bank and talk to her bank manager, let them know what's going on and NOT to ever add him or give her account info. Same with mortgage company.
If you can, take MOM with. That way, she is outta the house for a minute and can tell them herself.
BULLies are only BULLIES in SECRET. Then they feel INVINSIBLE cause no one is doing anything about it.
To MOM . . . . I know that you love your Son, But LOVE DON"T HURT, not even your feelings. Time for you to show your son that you LOVE YOU. Just as much as he loves hiself.
JUST DO IT RIGHT NOW
Don't be too affraid of him to save you and your MOM. . . . . IM if you want.
2007-01-09 03:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was ur brother before also like this or has he become like this after marriage. if after marraige then his wife is pushing him to do like this .find a way when ur brother is in good mood to sit with him alone and speak to him about the problems and make him realise that why u r changed what ever we have is for u so u dont have to insult mother she took care for us all these years now its our turn to give her rest and peice of mind.
2007-01-09 05:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police.
2007-01-09 03:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In which country do you live? If you are in the US, you can go to social services. There are places that help seniors who are being abused. Stop this now.
http://www.preventelderabuse.org/
2007-01-09 03:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is strong....go to a counselor that would help you with your case......good luck....
2007-01-09 03:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by abril b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋