my BF is studing in another country,we have met 3 months ago and then he left,he seems so lovely,we texting each other many times a day,he even proposed me,but i don't know him well,how can i be sure he is not cheating on me there?or what is he doing late at nights?he likes partying and go to club several times a week !!
2007-01-08 19:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by susie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't be sure. But you can just ignore the problem at the moment, and concentrate of something more fun. Get a new hobby, read a good book, play a new computer game. You can't be sitting around wondering what is your "boyfriend" doing there in another country. You guys haven't known each other THAT long, it's hardly reasonable to worry about "cheating" when there is no real relationship to speak of. By the time you have developed your relationship in the face-to-face interractions, and have made a mutual committment to each other to be "exclusive", you will have built up more trust and understanding - hopefully, such worries as you're preoccupied with now will simply be unnecessarily. Don't worry too much about something you have no control of... But do try and influence that which you have all the control over - such as your own happiness and well-being. There are lots of fun things to do in this life, enjoy them!
2007-01-08 19:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The key to a relationship is communication. Do you have that. How long is he going to be gone. YOu just need to ask yourselve is this what you really want to sit around every night wondering what he is doing. Who he is doing? But on the other hand if you both love each other and you know that for sure wait for him and trust him unless he gives you a reason not to. Trust him. Good luck!
2007-01-08 19:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure about how to tell in a long distance relationship.
Read a book called "The Cheat Sheet". All the signs are in that book.
He could be faithful to you, so for now, don't worry about it. But also don't be naive. If you have serious doubts about him being faithful, then investigate it further so you know for sure.
When you next see him in person, watch how he acts around you and around other girls. If he is true to you and you only, you will know.
Just ask him about what he gets up to. If he doesn't want to answer or changes a topic quickly, he is hiding something. If he is honest with you, you will know.
2007-01-08 19:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you doubt him now? There's a whole lot of things, that both of you need to do. Before youtake the Big Step. Let your Heart be your Guide. It's never failed me!
2007-01-08 19:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really tell you what to do, but if you love him then you should trust him too. though you haven't been together for very long, but only time will tell ok so dont stress, sweetie.
2007-01-08 19:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are even wondering if he is cheating then that means there isn't 100 % trust. and if there isn't 100% unconditional trust, then why even mess with the guy?
2007-01-08 19:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by bones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Joey Greco. That guy is great.
2007-01-08 19:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Omniscience 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
99% guys are dishonest while they staying abroad .
2007-01-08 19:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by tricksy52002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK FOR ALL THAT U NEED AFTER MARRIAGE
2007-01-08 19:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by mohan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋