I don't know where to start. My girlfriend in the first week we began dating, told me she thought she was pregnant(Mind you, she was my first). But the funny thing is she was lying and wanted me to just go to the clinic with her because an ex boyfriend(whom cant stand me and she's been dating for 6-7 yrs off and on) called her and told her she'd better get checked out. I agreed and told her that she didnt have sex with herself so I was just as guilty as she was. But there's a twist. for months she never told me that she wasn't kidding about thinking she was pregnant,she knew it wasn't mine,but was infact her old ex boyfriend. She already missed her period before she and I had sex. I felt so bad after that and I still do. I trust her but I dont.I really dont know what to do I love her but....I dunno. She was propubly the first girl I ever had in my life who loves me the way she does. I feel so hurt,but I dont know what to do.
2007-01-08 19:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by Mouse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah, she isn't pregnant. She thought she was but she isn't,This was in october. She says that I treat her like her dad about preaching about her drinking and smoking. dont get me wrong, I not one of those "drinking achool is the devil!" types but there's a time and place for drinking and all that stuff. When you do it to get rid of "issues" that ain't solving nothing but making things worst. She was going to break up with me cause I was always telling her that she shouldn't do that for another guy who propubly just wants the Dummy her out and dont give a flying tird about her just so she could do her thing.
2007-01-08 19:35:24 · update #1
-we weren't dating at the time, we where still talking when they had sex. When we started dating I had sex with er after the fact.
2007-01-08 19:38:16 · update #2
Sounds like your girlfriend is a whore.
2007-01-08 19:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I am gonna be blunt...fool!!! you need to take a step back and read what you just wrote...she seems to not know what she wants...do you? I feel sorry for all that is involved. The truth is always the best! PATERNATY TEST!!!! hello then you will know the truth! If you are not sure what is going on then step back a focus on the bigger picture! Please, do your self a favor....find another girl! I am a girl and I can see the big picture! If you can't tust her with all of your soul and know for sure that she is not doing anything wrong then...find another girlfriend! If you believe with in you a 100% that she is not making you look like an idiot and using you then stay with her. Sometimes the best advice comes from your mom! Good luck
2007-01-09 03:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by pinkcrystal30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. The quicker the better.
She is taking you for a ride because you are obviously a nice guy who will take care of her. you might be good for her, but she is NOT for you.
Also... because she was your first, you are going to have a very strong emotional attachment and connection to her that will take a long time to fade. Even if she does horrible things to you, like she has done, and continues to lie to you.
If she lied to you about something as huge as being pregnant, what else has she lied to you about.
Sorry that your first was a lying tramp. I hope you find a better girl that will be honest with you and treat you right.
2007-01-09 03:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read your question and see how confused she has you? Love is simple and not full of lies and deception and games. If someone is making you feel this way something isn't right. You have deep feelings for her because she is your first but you need to move on. She is trouble for you and more heartaches ahead. Just be strong and pray I promise you'll find someone that will treat you with respect and not just play head games with you. Good Luck!
2007-01-09 03:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good gawd. Run. Run away quickly. She does not love you sweety, she is just using you for whatever reason. You said it yourself. She lies to you, and apparently cheats if she thought she was preggo by her ex while dating you. You don't trust her. That's not love. So run, fast, before you DO get her pregnant and are stuck with co parenting a child with her for the rest of your life.
2007-01-09 03:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the child is not yours, get away from this girl. She sounds like a liar. Been through something similiar. Besides why would you want to be with someone who lies, doesn't practice safe sex. Let her go, you will thank yourself in the future.
2007-01-09 03:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hadn't found out the truth do you think she would've let you bring up a child that wasn't biologically yours? When you thought it was? If you think she would've done this then bin her straight away. Honesty & trust are major parts of an adult relationship and by the sounds of it, these are what your relationship is lacking.
2007-01-09 03:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally she sounds scandalous and maybe she treats you well or shows you love when your around or when she needs you but girls know how to play there men and she might be in love with the other guy but stringing you along to make him jealous and so she won't be alone.
2007-01-09 03:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a step back and rethink the relationship further. What will she joke about next time being sick or something?
2007-01-09 03:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt. if she lied to about something so important and life changing as this then who know what else she can lie about. anyway that is my opion, and im sure what ever decision you make will be the right one
2007-01-09 03:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by AliasPlease 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have to say leave her coz you doesn't trust her..relationship without trust is useless.i know its hard to dumped her just like that but it will be unfair for the both of you if dont trust her.im sorry to say but as i read your story it looks like she is just using you(sorry)..i just wanna tell you,nobody deserves to be cheated on..but the last decision is yours..think it through..you know whats best for you ;)
2007-01-09 04:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by ♥heartbreaker♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋