he called it off before but we decided to work things out. Well today we got into a big arguement and he's not answering his phone and he's not at home. Usually he'll go to the casino when he gets upset and he'll get no reception but I won't know till in the morning. Should I just give up, ask for some space or what. He loves me but it seems he's putting others before me and our quality time. What should I do,help?
2007-01-08 19:16:15 · 8 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you call that 'love' then you need to learn what true love is.
You said he loves you but puts others before you (quality time).
Putting others before someone you love, that isn't love at all!!
Love 'true love', will ALWAYS think /do whats best for the other person FIRST, above and beyond anyone or anything else.
If he is not answering his phone, and is not at home, why on earth are you tracking him down?
He doesn't want to be found 'not by you' anyway.
You two should end this realtionship before there is 'MORE'
hurt and sorrow.
I think it's time YOU let him go!!!
2007-01-08 19:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your pain. I have just gone through this same scenario twice in the last week: New Year's Eve ( I called him nobaody while talking on the phone to another guy), and Saturday (difference of opinion on money). Both times he threatened to pack up and move out and leave me stuck with the bills again...did I mention we broke up in May and got back together in November?
Either way the situation goes, understand that you can not make him love you, agree with you, or stand by you. He has to make that decision for himself. You can love him unconditionally, but let him know that you are willing to fight for your relationship. If he isn't willing to fight for the relationship with you, let him go. He may come back to you later and then the decision is yours on whether to take him back.
Know that love is hard and sometimes we make mistakes and/or bad decisions in the name of "love." However, don't lose yourself in the pursuit of love from someone else. Nobody can love you like you love yourself!
2007-01-08 19:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow older. You'll see how everyone, gets into arguements. How they react, to those disagreements? Goe to how much mature, they are. Give him some space. Both of you, settle down. Once the anger, clears. You'll see who was wrong. And go from there. It may not be over. It just may be a turning point, for you.
2007-01-08 19:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 00:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend, means no commitment. He and you can do whatever you want. Put your energines into something you like that is positive. If he wants to come back he will If not you had three nice years take the nice memories and throw the bad ones in the trash.
2007-01-08 19:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If when you and he get into an argument and run from one another its never going to work--think twice about where this is taking you--
2007-01-08 19:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is wrong and not worthy. The guy is always wrong and never worthy. That is what my wife has me say everytime before she will have s ex with me. Any more questions?
2007-01-08 19:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you are fighting about!
2007-01-08 19:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋