that is when when a guy asks your hand in marriage for instance, is it normal to have doubts? and what should you do when such doubts arise?
2007-01-08 19:14:38 · 13 answers · asked by wittybaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u have to figure out if these doubts are with you or your mate, then go from there, if they are with yourself then u can work on it, if they are with ur mate, then you're probably with the wrong person...
2007-01-08 19:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Paulie Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not have a single doubt when my husband proposed. However, I guess it could be normal to have cold feet, it just depends on the degree of your doubts. Are they major? Does one of you want kids and the other not want them? Do you have different religions? If it is based on major issues, then I would say you need to sit back and really think about it. However, if it is just butterflies and you really love him and believe in your heart that he was made for you, then don't worry about it. Give it time and everything will fall into place.
2007-01-09 03:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely. Did you ever hear the expression "the bride or groom got cold feet".
When doubts arise you should discuss them with someone that you respect, and look up to. Tell that person what your doubts are. He or she will help you analyze the doubts, if they are well founded, or your just getting "cold feet".
2007-01-09 03:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is okay to have doubts you would not be human if you did not have them that is your inner self protector that is what tells us when something isnt right you know also known as i have a funny feeling. step 1 think about what your doubts are. 2 compare pros and cons. 3 what is good for you. 4 your the only person that knows why your having doubts. 5 who better to listen to then yourself. this is how i found out my bestfriend was sleeoing with my boyfriend you never know whats inside yourself unless you try to figure out your doubts!
2007-01-09 03:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by reinamndz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to have doubts in every relationship, there's always one or two things that annoy you about your partner however you soon realise that they are silly things and without them you wouldn't love your partner as much!! If you are having major doubts then maybe time apart would let you see if you miss him or not and you can take it from there
2007-01-09 03:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure lesbian's, etc, aren't impervious to doubts about their relationships.
Secondly, having doubts is normal. If the doubts are extreme, your probably making the wrong choice. Doubts that are harmless are the kind that doesn't stop you from proceeding.
2007-01-09 03:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, there are some doubts.
But, if you have enough doubts you need to pay attention to them.
I had doubts and I got married anyway. and paid a big price for it.
2007-01-09 03:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts you should not ignore them, try working on the situation and try to make sure you are on the right track...
2007-01-09 03:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call it doubt....I call it INSTINCT!! Listen to your instincts baby!! Of course, nothing is guaranteed, and, even when you're "sure" you could be mistaken, {we've all been THERE}, BUT, if something is telling you, that this isn't right??? 9 times out of 10??? It isn't right!!! Don't forget...."Love"=stupid. Yes, it's true.
2007-01-09 03:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts about your realtionship then you need to talk to one another about it.
There is no point in getting married if you feel this way.
2007-01-09 03:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋