How long do you think it would be for her to contact you? In other words, if she had any interest in you how long could she take to get her thoughts together and maybe give a second chance? Week? Month? Or does it have to come very soon? Not waiting around but just curious if women gather their thoughts in a short period of time or after she misses for a while.
2007-01-08 18:38:08 · 7 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my case, I was hoping the guy would call almost immediately after I broke it off with him (like, maybe, 3 days or so later). It's not that I didn't mean what I said when I broke it off, it's just that sometimes girls break up with guys because they are doing it as a test subconciously. However, depending on the girl...the desire to hear from the guy and want to get back together could last as long as a month or maybe even two months. Basically, a girl wants the guy to prove to them that they were wrong in their reasoning for parting...so contact the girl, but make sure you prove to her that you care/have changed/whatever is necessary.
2007-01-08 18:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by intothelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, it depends on how the guy is, if he will be gone soon, then she will not wait long, maybe 1 day, if she is sure he will still be single, up to a month, it also depends on what happened with it all, it might take a year in a worse case scenario
2007-01-09 02:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by disco lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner rather then later, that's for sure. If months go by, it usually means she didn't find what she was looking for and wants something to tide her over until she decides to look again. If she comes back right away, like within a couple days, it might be a change of heart.
2007-01-09 02:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going through the same thing , but i would have to say bout a month, the thing is she'll thinnk bout it everyday, but she wont tell you during that time, this is where shes talking to her friends, and asking for their advice, cuz she doesnt know what to do, but if you try to stay optimistic, youll see that she will regret it, and sayshe misses talking to you or being with you at the very least
then again, it realy depends how long u guys been tgether, how deep your connection was, etc.
2007-01-09 02:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by sadbuttrueprince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, there is no set time because each case has so many variables but don't set yourself up for disappointment. I mean you can hope for something and go after it, but be cautious and realize it may be over forever.
2007-01-09 02:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the reason why yall broke up if it was a simple reason then yea but if its a really bad reason and your still grieveing over it then no.
2007-01-09 02:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by jabarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'd happen soon...
2007-01-09 02:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋