ok so my ex broke up with me, and now she wants to be friends (how awkward), so we're gona try and we've made it clear that we are going to be honest with each other 100%..... BUT!!!!
she had given me her password to her email coup months ago, and ive never checked it until just the other day ( i know its invasion of privacy, but still, she gave it to me), cuz i had this gut instinct that she mayhave left me for another guy
i hapend to notice emails exchanged, shes been getting realy seroius (feelings, dates, sexual positoins) with this other guy, who happens to be a good buddy of mine
when i asked each of them separately, each of them said there is nothing going on btwn them, and keep denying that nothings going on
so they are obviously lying to my face, what are my options and what do i do!?!?!?!? do i talk to any of them , what do i say??
thanks in advance!!!!!
2007-01-08 18:16:57 · 9 answers · asked by sadbuttrueprince 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually I do not think you can do anything now because she has already broken up with you. She's free to do whatever she wants and so is he. Any interference or pushing from your side will make you look bad.
If you just can't stand their attitude, lying to you like this, then cut the contact with both of them without caring to give them any reasons.
If you press the issue harder, they may ask you to mind your own business and make you feel bad about yourself...you know the truth about it and that's enough.
2007-01-08 18:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by rinah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well technically you two arn't a item any more so she is free to do what ever she wants with your friend. I would just wish them the best and be there for both of them as a friend, and dont' check her email any more, even if she says its ok. If you cant' do that then just walk away there are plent of people out there to be friends with, so there isnt' a reason to fume or worry about it.
2007-01-08 18:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by athena9980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get back in her freakin email and print it. remind her and tell HIM she gave you the password and this is what you found, now i know both of you are lying so fess up. and if they dont, f*** 'em, you can find better people to be around.
2007-01-08 18:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by red77chevy350 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would probably confront him about it first because he's one of your best friends. just let him know that your friendship's more important to him than grils and you'll understand if he's going out w/her or w/e but that you just want to know the truth...if he still says nothing than i think you have no choice but to print out the emails and show them to them as proof.
2007-01-08 18:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by shoes fly off 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away. Why would a women want to be your friend--- your just there so she can use you down the road. They are both playing you---walk away from both.
2007-01-08 18:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by redrepair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think lieing is the worst thing you can do in a relationship or even friendship ,, if your gonna lie your nothing to me
2007-01-08 18:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. GET A NEW G/F YOU DON'T NEED THE LYING THAT WILL GO ON FOR EVER
2007-01-08 18:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. It will save you a lot of heartache.
2007-01-08 18:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw them both, its one thing for that crap to be going on, but they should just tell you the truth you already know anyways.
2007-01-08 18:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋