My ex that i dated for three years and we broke up a while ago b/c we were hurting each other and honestly i was to immature for that kind of really serious relationship.. i have attempted at moving on. I met this reallly great guy and we started dating and we hit it off. I have started to grow as a person in this relationship and started to realize some things about myself, here is where the problem comes in..my new bf gave me a really nice ring for x-mas and at first i loved it and now i'm not sure. While all this was going on i was still in contact with my ex because we know so much about each other and have a really strong bond and are best friends. My current bf is away and so i decided to try and hang out with my ex (my bf knows) and we connected in a different way and admitted that we feel really drawn to each other but nothing physical happened. Honestly i see a future with my ex and but i don't want ot hurt my new bf, and i'm afraid of being hurt by my ex again,who do i choose
2007-01-08 18:05:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmmm obviously you haven't gotten over your ex boyfriend and that's why you keeping holding on to him sometimes we as females don't know how to let go of the bad guys to open up for the good ones that are trying to get into our lives. the one problem that you have is your ex is like your best friend which is not really good because if you go to him with problems about your new BF he will always tell you things so that you two can break up so he can have you. the one thing that you said that you and your ex are really good friends maybe your ex is better to you as just your friend he looks good to you now because you both are friends your not in a relationship .. if your boyfriend is good to you then stay with him because your going to give a good man up for a guy that you said hurt you really bad. most women do this an suffer in the end and you will not be able to get your current boyfriend back once he's gone he's gone there's no getting that good man back .. it really seems like you need to not be so close with your ex anymore because he is going to always be in your head but if you would stop talking to him for a while then you will see how good your current relationship really is don't lose a good thing for something that you already had and you know that is not good for you.. Good Luck
2007-01-08 18:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think, why do you chose new bf? Is it only because he gave u a ring? If so, I don't think it a real love. And What is the reason make your love with the ex-bf broken? Is it a really big trouble? But, anyway, Don't decide now. Time will tell you what you should do. Let listen to your heart. ^(^
2007-01-09 02:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by vicam_sh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first if your new bf is ok with you hanging out with your ex then you need to hang on to the new guy and not hang out with the ex. he's ok because he trust you but you don't need to put your self in the position to hurt him. the old guy had a choice leave and i think you need to make him stick to that decision. something caused you guys to break up and it normally doesn't work after a break up. stick to your original choices and stay with the new guy.
2007-01-09 02:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by heatherstamey05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough. Wait it out.. be with you current bf and eventually something will come up and break it off with him. tell your ex to give you some time while you're doing all this.
2007-01-09 02:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ezz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ex is an ex for a reason...think about your times with your ex and I am sure you can recall some horrid times. It is easy to only remember the good times but trust me please remember that bad as well. You know in your heart who makes you the happiest. I would think about my options and my future....listen to your heart and remember that it is YOU that controls you own happiness. God Bless!
2007-01-09 02:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by LenaRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never go backwards the past is the past and if you was not happy with some of the things he did in your relationship how you know that it is the same so what mah\kes you think it is different do you think it will work know go for it but this other guy might be good for you give it time
2007-01-09 02:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by akinkatheryn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with you current bf.
2007-01-09 02:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the new guy.
2007-01-09 02:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by Elysia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋