Will she love me?

Question

Hi Friends,Im in a serious problem.My problem is, when I was in high school my friend(D) was calling my another friend(R) in my name talking rubbish with her.She warned me many times like don’t call me.But I was not calling her.One day she said this matter to her father,her father came to my dad and told everything that im calling to her this that. My dad n mom scolded me nicely.After 2 years I met her one day in an examination hall, I talked to her even she respond me nicely. When she talked to me I felt cool like I don’t know what happened to me, I fell in luv wit her.After around 6 mnths later I proposed her. But she didn’t accept me.I told the fact that I was not calling her n all.But she didn’t listen to me.She said “you read well, after getting job do all these things”.now I got a Govt. job.I luv her very much.
My query is shall I propose her again? What she`ll accept my love? What rich grls wont luv poor guys? Lol.The fact is they are very rich,im poor.But I hve a nice job.

Answer 1

Listen guy, it's time to move on. Once you propose and a woman says no, that means she doesn't love you. If she loved you, the job you have or don't have wouldn't matter, she'd want to just be with you, so that's just an excuse. And why would you want a woman who's only interested in money and convenience anyway? I don't know how old you are, but you sound pretty young. You can meet another girl that will love you for you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't make something of yourself. Be successful, continue to grow as a man and eventually you'll find a woman who will appreciate you. The relationship you had with her sounds like it's done. You need to accept it and leave her alone. She might just talk to her dad again and he'll come down to beat you're *** for not getting the point. Us women do tend to look for financial security- that does not mean we are Gold Diggers, (gold diggers are just parasitic opportunists). Women have a natural instinct to settle down and "nest" we look for men who are financially secure because in the long run, if we are going to have a family with them, we need to make sure the man can "protect and provide" for the family. Because we are the ones who bear children. I'm not saying the woman should stay home and not work, but again, it's a natural instinct to find this security if we want a serious relationship. BUT the reason I am telling you NOT to go back with this girl, is because you have already lost your dignity as a man. It's oozing out of your question. And believe me, if she doesn't respect you now, she never will, so it's better to start off something new. At least you have something more to offer the next woman that comes into your life.

Answer 2

Unfortunately this sounds like a case of her wanting to be ignorant.

But proposing before telling the truth did hurt you a little, it made you sound like you were making excuses when in fact you were telling the truth.

If she is shallow enough to put money over love, you don't need her your better then she, that doesn't make a good fit in my opinion. You could still talk to her and try again but it doesn't seem like a good idea to me.

Answer 3

You shouldn't be chasing her while all these other girls out here are looking for a guy like you to break down and do anything for. You were merely Infatuated with this girl love takes plenty of time and you have to build with It It doesn't happen when you see a pretty face and smile. Just take your time don't try to rush through life you'll miss everything that's Important.......good luck

Answer 4

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Answer 5

money shouldnt matter if there is love. as long as you both have good jobs. so dont worry about that.

but i advise that you should propose when yous are living together and have been living together like a married couple for well over 6months , its like test , if you survive this then yes propose to her and seeing that yous worked well together living together and stuff then she is way more liking to accept coz she will see it will work out

Answer 6

IF you think she likes you, propose to her, doesn't matter rich or poor. Can you support her, is she looking for marriage right now? Go to her family and propose then?!

Answer 7

If you are working and trying then her parents shouldn't have too many bad things to say, they want their daughter to get with someone who can make a life, not someone who will never have one (such as a bum). I think you have a chance, and you should try again. Good luck.

Answer 8

ok well best thing is leave her alone, if you propose agin shes gonna think your stalking her which ain't good at all. Just get over it. you'll find someone else, who doesn't care about money.

plenty more fish in the sea! =D

Answer 9

She doesn't sound like she has very high principles and over time you would "fall out of" love with her and be bored and disilllusioned by her spoiled-baby tactics... look for someone more worthy of your affections.

God bless!

Answer 10

If she doesn't care how hard you tried to tell her that it wasn't you who made that prank call and she doesn't even accept your apology, then you shouldn't waste your time on her. She's useless.