Reciently my bf of almost 3yrs came for his first ever holidays with my family and i.... The only started on bad terms with my brother threw a stick at my bf and my bf got hit in the face with it and naturally reacted by hitting him back. My dad went off saying no one touches his kids as his right to do. Then my bf kept saying my brother was untouchable... Then the week went on with my bf mood swings he went shitty bout my 2 broither taking food from us but we all share in my family... Then on my home a coke bottel exploded in my car and my bf threw it out of the car cracking it because it went on him and it was his fault. But it was an accident then he got out of the car and smashed the bottel on the ground agagin. He said it was an outlet from all the crap his gpot on the hoidays... My bf is almost 23.. Is he immature?? My family have never seen him like this and his usally good so im a bit spun out myself The family called him a tool and said he need to grow up.. He c
2007-01-08 17:21:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he clashes with my brother who is 12
Will he grow up?
Am i waisting my time??
What do i do?
My family said they dont hate him but if he continues they will.... They said if we get a house together and my bf goes stupid they will not visit???
But family comes first? But i love my bf
2007-01-08 17:22:46 · update #1
he clashes with my brother who is 12
Will he grow up?
Am i waisting my time??
What do i do?
My family said they dont hate him but if he continues they will.... They said if we get a house together and my bf goes stupid they will not visit???
But family comes first? But i love my bf
2007-01-08 17:23:08 · update #2
He has abusive tendencies, looses his temper, expresses himself with a physical manner, can't handle stress--- he is a prime character for abusing you and any child that you may have if you stick together and/or marry. If you like the idea of being a victim stay with him---other wise -------------RUN
2007-01-08 17:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by redrepair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boy friend is very immature. I mean realy, a 23 year old hitting a 12 year old! Not only is he immature but his outlet of anger and frustration is violence, and he has demonstrated that he can be violent against people. Who is to say that he won't become violent with you when he has a bad day at work or something bad happens and you happen to be in the room?
Yes, he might grow up, but is it worth the chance? Are you willing to bet your health (and possibly life) on him growing up and becomeing less violent? This is a choice that you have to make and noone else can make for you.
2007-01-09 01:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by BoranJarami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he has an anger problem. u need to sit down with him and lay down the law when it comes to ur family. if anyone should feel uncomfortable around ur family it is him. accidents happen and he did not need to explode at ur lil bro like that. it was uncalled for. the code bottle in the car was immature too. i dont think he will ever grow up. i used to be with a guy the same way and thats y we are not together anymore. i told him that i couldnt take his anger problem anymore and told him that he had to leave. good luck!!
2007-01-09 01:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by babyblues452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could try talking to him about the situation and try to find out what that happen with your family. but just like you said family comes first if you cant get you family to like him then you probably need to end it. it okay to put your man firt but remember your family is always there for you.
2007-01-09 01:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋