Is it okay that me and my g/f worry about her getting pregnant after we have sex?

Question

We think about this everytime and we do it about once a month and she worries and yes we use condoms but is it an okay thing to worry about?

I am 16, turning 17 tuesday and me and my beautiful GF having being going out for 6 months this thursday and we have a great relationship and i do what she ask and if she doesnt want to have sex a lot that is okay but i would like to have a least more sex than once a month

Answer 1

yes, it is a good thing to worry about, and as several people suggested she should be on some sort of birth control wich will put your worries at ease for a while, and using a condomn (that is still in date) EVERY time will definitly help to!

And whoever said that couples with differing sex drives have no future, well I can tell you from expierence that it's pure B*S*. I have a very high sex drive, while my partners is about average. And we have been together for a little over a year now......

Just because she doesn't want sex as much as you doesn't mean it won't work, it means you'll have safer sex more often (for those of you that don't get it, I mean he'll just have to use his hands more than have sex with the gf)..

If she doesn't want penetration you could always ask for her to use her hands or her mouth, explore your fantasies, maybe she's a voyer at heart (likes to watch), and can just watch you play with yourself.
You never know.

communication is key to ANY relationship, so open your mouth!

Goodluck

Answer 2

I think it's normal. Every girl fears something that changes her life in such A drastic way. I mean I know you want more sex , but I think you should take more responsibility. Maybe y'all should talk about birth-control. An if she chooses to take it . take her to an health center and help her get it. I mean the best part about it is that you can use A fake name and They cant tell your parents without your permission. So good luck with yall journey.

Answer 3

Yes, it is normal to worry about this happening. You are both very young and should get as much protection as possible till you are both ready to face a real life pregnancy from possibly happening.

Answer 4

Good on you tiger. In answer to your question, yes, sexual intercourse can lead to pregnancy. Apparently the stork theory on childbirth still retains some popularity, but after fathering several dozen illegitimate children I can assure you that this a myth only.

Answer 5

Yes, you have every reason to always worry. But don't, if you are being safe and using a condom every time..you should be OK. Condoms are 99.9% effective if used correctly.

Answer 6

She really should go on birth control. That will ease your worrying. It is something to worry about...everyone worries about it... but it's something that would be nice NOT to worry about. If she goes on birth control and you use a condom, you wouldn't have to think about it as much. ALWAYS use a condom.

Answer 7

properly there is pre-ejaculation and it could get her pregnant. Have her take the plan b pill and that removes your possibility of her being pregnant anymore. Any time you have unprotected intercourse factors of project to get her pregnant. Use condoms all the time to be certain this doesnt ensue :) better of success

Answer 8

It's better to be safe than sorry - you don't need that now. Still, don't be paranoid - just use contraceptives and count days in the menstrual cycle - everything will be OK.

Answer 9

You will have to think about this seriously: if the sexual needs are not compatible, you have no future together. She needs less sex, clearly (and quite rightly) you need more. It cannot go far.

Answer 10

Yeah.