What is the line for bisexuality and being straight?

Question

What is the line for bisexuality and being straight?
I've been really worried about myself, because (this is the first time I've ever told ANYONE) I sometimes like watching girls in porn. I think I'm insane. Haha.
I asked this is the CORRECT category, but received no answers.

Kay-Kay Sixx = My name is Kay-Kay and I am in a Mötley Crüe tribute band, playing as the bassist, hence NIKKI Sixx.
No discrimination-related innuendo.
Jeez, people care too much.

Answer 1

the line is crossed when act on the desire--and have a sexual act with another women. Your not, no longer a virgin when you think about sex. your not a bank robber just thinking about the money in a bank.

Answer 2

This is a common modern problem. You will likely get people who tell you that you're bi (right away) or that any form of homosexuality is a sin.

Only you really know and can decide. I think a lot of girls today, though, are quick to call themselves bisexual. Most people, especially girls, have tendencies to be attracted to one-another. It's ok and don't be ashamed. But you have to ask yourself if you would ever have sex with another female. Would you ever marry and spend the rest of your life with another female. The line between bisexuality and being straight isn't something to be decided quickly or over porn. It's a life-style decision and one that's not to be taken lightly.


Good luck.

Answer 3

Nothing wrong with looking, doesn't mean you're gay or even bi. It's natural and if you're watching porn, it's hard not to see/notice people of the same sex as yourself. So stop fretting that you're insane, you're perfectly normal. Where you get to the bi stage is to make love/have sex with someone the same sex as yourself as well as having sex with someone of the opposite sex. To be gay, that is when your preference is for people the same sex as yourself. OK, another scenario can be to be in a threesome with a guy and a gal and actually have some involvement with the gal at the same time. That doesn't necessarily make you bi unless of course you start doing it on a very regular basis. Hope this helps!

Answer 4

With a name like Kay-Kay Sixx I doubt that you would be concerned about being Gay or Bi or watching girls on porn? Sounds like some take on an anti EVERYTHING if you ask me.

Wouldn't KK6 be anti "free will, thinking, sexual orientation or any mean's of thinking for yourself? Like KKK? Don't YOU people have some Grand Poop or Secretary of "None of my Business" to ask these questions to?

Answer 5

I personally feel that if you are bisexual you have relations with both sexes. Being straight means a relationship with just the opposite sex. Homosexual is having a relationship with the same sex. I don't think that looking at pictures makes you one way or the other.

Answer 6

The line is here...if you want to actually do it with a girl, then you are bisexual (if you still like guys). However, just wanting to watch girl on girl action does not make you bisexual. Even fantasizing about it when you are with a guy does not make it so. It is only the desire to actually be with a girl.

Answer 7

As long as I Think straight means when male and female indulge in sex. Bisexuality may be same sex having sex or something like that.

Answer 8

If you really could see yourself in a long term relationship with a woman, or if you could see yourself being sexual with a woman, that makes you bi-sexual. You have to desire women, to be bi. Just seeing them in porn is enough to turn anyone on. But that alone doesn't make you bi-sexual.

Answer 9

Dude.....if you like the same sex in a sexual manner then you are gay. Being straight means you only desire the opposite sex.

Answer 10

i would say that if you would have feelings for and do stuff with a girl.... if u have EVER had thoughts of being with a girl.... then prolly you are bisexual.... i am straight... never have had thoughts and dont ever plan on doing anything with a girl .