He never makes an effort to spend time together and is always busy with whatever. We don't sleep together and he never asks for sex. He can be really sweet when we are not arguing and when i ask him what he wants from me he says " All i want you to do is be my girl".
2007-01-08 16:56:42 · 9 answers · asked by lemondrop1986 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him ...why would you stay with someone that don't show you any feelings in return stop waisting your time
2007-01-08 17:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by " Dixieland Delight " 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are three possible answers to this question:
1. He loves you, but he has just been extremely preoccupied lately. He'll come around.
2. He is cheating. Go through his phone, ask around (be sneaky), watch out for all the girls he hangs out with-ALL THE GIRLS- chances are, the one who is the nicest to you is probably the one he's cheating with.
3. Something is very wrong if he doesn't want sex. He could be dealing with some new (or old) homosexual feelings, and you just might be his show dog for his friends and family. Does he have homosexual tendencies? That is for you to decide.
Use common sense. You sound like a normal girl, you will be just fine. :)
2007-01-09 01:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by BudLightRocks56954 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so---but if you are young, a first step for some guys is having a girlfriend---regardless of what you do or don't do. Sex is never a way to judge a relationship. He seems to be doing this at his speed. Not too fast--which is nice----some guys would be all over you and that's all they want. Arguing is time wasted--maybe you need to move on to a more fulfilling relationship that is satisfying to you. Fighting is not communicating---you should have tons more to talk about---be nice and good luck
2007-01-09 01:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely possible but words and actions between you two don't make him a cheater. Only the action of cheating does that. The best thing to do in this situation is speak with him about it and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't express any form of caring then you should break it off. You don't need proof of cheating to break up with him, only your own feelings about the relationship.
Good luck. I hope it all works out.
2007-01-09 01:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not neccessarily cheating but definitely distracted. More communication is needed in your relationship. If thats the only answer he can give then you might need to find someone else to ask that question.
2007-01-09 01:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the first guy said or he's cheating. One of the two, but for him not to ask for sex means he's bored of you and getting it from someone else, or he really is homosexual.
2007-01-09 01:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally as a woman i always go with my gut instinct and usually I'm always right and if he isn't having sex with u then he's having sex with someone else men never refuse sex specially when they can have it anytime with their own girlfriend
good luck Hun
2007-01-09 01:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by jane_queen_of_jungle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's queer, he just wants you to be his front so noone knows.
2007-01-09 01:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by deangowarrior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him !!!!!!
2007-01-09 01:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by bienbuenote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋