My boyfriend and I are both a little curious about light s&m (very light) and light bondage. I really want to tie him up, and I was wondering if people could give me some creative ideas of what to do with him while he's tied up. Thanks!
2007-01-08 16:42:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be sure to play safe. Silk scarves, as someone mentioned earlier, work nicely. If you use handcuffs, make sure that they are the kind that "double-lock" so that they don't tighten if the person accidentally sits on them. Police issue work nicely for this purpose. Keep extra keys handy, too, just in case. Never leave a bound person alone, either, and make sure to have him tell you if any part of him becomes numb.
Tickling and other forms of teasing work nicely. I like to run my fingers over a young lady (I keep my fingernails long for this purpose) and it drives them wild. If you make a trip to your local petstore, they sell gloves make for grooming dogs and cats that have spikes on the palm. They also work nicely. ;)
Any sexual contact that he is unable to reciprocate will drive him wild, whether it be oral or vaginal intercourse. The fact that he can't reach out to grope or touch you will be its own little torture.
2007-01-09 06:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Scarves are nice, since it's just light pressure. If you have a headboard, that much better. Tie his hands to the headboard and lightly tease him with a feather, or ice cubes. Stay away from the hot wax for a while. Just a bit of oral is good too, but not so much that it'll actually drive him crazy. Then, when you get him really hot, untie him and let him go crazy with his newly gained power. Have fun, and make a safe word!
2007-01-09 00:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
tease him until he cant take it any more, and make sure he cant touch himself!! sometimes its like they go insane, so funny :)
2007-01-09 00:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by luvly_azn_hotti 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your girlfriends.
2007-01-09 00:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
touch yourself in front of him while he can't reach you... that will torture him enough.
2007-01-09 00:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by ima_averagejoe 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋