I'm starting to wonder if there is something wrong with me that I don't see.
2007-01-08 16:40:24 · 30 answers · asked by KitterKat2310 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that's actually your photo, you are a very attractive individual. And your question indicates thoughtfulness.
I think it may be a case of not being in the right place at the right time. Sometimes our lives don't give us the time and the opportunity to meet the right people, so you have to make the most of it.
Clubs aren't the greatest places to meet guys...the guys that are there are usually just looking for fun. If you're religious, you might try a church group. You could volunteer and possibly meet someone who's caring enough to volunteer too. What interests you? Pursue it, and hopefully you could meet someone who shares the same.
And there's online dating, but don't "date" long-distance. A friend of mine has had great success meeting guys in her own area on match.com.
Good luck!
2007-01-08 16:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing your age or location, I cannot say anything specific--but in general, I doubt if anything is wrong. Do you mean alone as no guy?? All I can say is nature will take its course--expand your horizons--get out --get a hobby or a little job that will put you in contact with more people. Let me also say that no matter what--do not lower your standards or choose questionable people just to have somebody,,,that will always be a mistake. Maybe your guy friends think you are not approachable--I mean they are shy or scared to make a move--don't worry, they'll come around---then you'll probably be too busy. Enjoy your life, be nice, and keep smiling
2007-01-09 00:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably looking for Mr. Right and not Mr. Right Now, that special person may take some time to come along. How does the song go "you cant hurry love, you just have to wait...". Lol, i dont even believe that myself, try a variety of events, im sure someone will sweep you off your feet. Oh yea, theres nothing wrong with you, too many men are just full of it.
2007-01-09 00:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by lemondrop1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, same thing was happening to one of my friends (she got asked out the first time at 16, and it's not because she wasn't pretty or mean or anything) but it doesn't mean something is wrong with you. What strangely works is to stop looking for a relationship; in other words, give up (in a sense) and kind of assume that nobody will ask you out for another 5 years, and that you might as well just be friends with all guys since they won't ask you out anyway, and it usually turns around at some point (i.e. you do get asked out). I know it seems pretty...gloomy to think like that but it works....
2007-01-09 00:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by cricket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are going after the wrong type of guy. Its probably not you that is the problem, just your taste in guys. Or something. Either that or it is you and there is something terribly wrong about you that you are unaware of. I would guess the first one, though.
2007-01-09 00:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Alex Awesome Valentine, Esq. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you look very young in your photo so you should be alone. Try all the guys out you can when your young. You will have plenty of time to be with the same guy once your hitched.
2007-01-09 00:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by dfgrace22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe others ( guys ) think you are unreachable. The old...." She's so neat...she wouldn't want anything to do with a loser like me." You could try turning your personality down a notch or 2 and just see what happens.
2007-01-09 00:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your choice of picture makes you look a little TOO fun. Try to bring it down a notch. What are you trying to say with that tongue and wide open mouth?
A little bit later: Now THAT is a nice picture. Good move. Go be your wonderful self.
2007-01-09 00:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be to loud or talk to much. Lower it down a bit and see what happens. Some girl over do it. Good luck.
2007-01-09 00:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not very selective with friends and overconfident at times, then you're in the wrong place or company...Find your rightful place in this world. Good luck!
2007-01-09 00:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by Willie Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋