I always feel lonely ,and If I get married i won't be lonely anymore.Plus I don't need to be afraid of the dark any longer.And , i want a baby
2007-01-08 16:36:09 · 8 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be mature. If you want a man so that you're not lonely you need to work on your self esteem a little. And if you want a baby you really have to think this through. A baby is a big big BIG responsibility.
2007-01-08 16:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy for wanting to get married, but there is a big difference between wanting to get married and being ready to get married.
What you have to ask your self is if you are ready to get married. Are you ready to take on the responabilities of marriage (and in this case haveing a child)? These are responsabilities that must not be taken lightly and if you choose later that you were not ready for them, it can be very harmful for the two of you and more so for the child(ren) if you have any.
If you find yourself lonely, then perhaps you should spend more time with friends or get involved with groups where you will have people around you like a church or volunteer organization.
2007-01-09 01:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by BoranJarami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage and having a baby are two things one should never rush into. Who wrote the guarantee that if you're married you won't be lonely? I know many married people who are very lonely. You're just a puppy. Wait until you can have a glass of champagne at your wedding.
2007-01-09 00:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not acting logical....
1.) being married does NOT mean you will no longer be lonely...you will be lonely if you arent in love with the guy and truly in love with him....you will be even lonlier if it didnt work and ended in divorce
2.) wanting a baby should take thought and not just selfish desires because you are lonely
2007-01-09 00:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsay H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah there. Don't do everything your uterus commands you to do. Women have options these days, and babies are the single biggest responsibility an adult can take on. 20 is waaaay too young.
2007-01-09 00:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Luke G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the wrong reasons-wait until you're 30
2007-01-09 00:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 22 and i want to get married also and i also want a baby . good luck
2007-01-09 00:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry as soon as possible other wise u will get invloved in some illegal activities/relations. so avaoid it and get married.
2007-01-09 00:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by classic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋