To make the story short I have been engaged for a year and getting married
My fiancé is very genourse nice and does what I want but his really over protective
And it drives me nuts where ?with who?how ? doesn’t give my space and we do argue about it things a lot
But I am happy in way as there is no big problems. My x is nice ,chicky , give me breaks ,but he dumbed me a year and half ago and I must say his the only person I ever loved …now he wants me back but he did hurt me
So much when he left and probably he will do it again and leave me ? my fiancé wants me to put a date for the wedding this year and I am not sure what to do ?
2007-01-08 16:25:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now here is the deal once you move on don't ever turn around unless you know it's worth it...because your ex wants you back and he has given you all the space you want it's not fair to you and your fiance to just throw a year or two away...I highly believe in second chances and karma...and if your ex didn't realize what kind of person you were o well...focus on working on you and your fiance insecurities...obviously he has been hurt in the past and you are not making it any better by interacting with your ex...you have to prove to your fiance that the foundation between the relationship is secure and solid, because the way i see it if your thinking about rekindling old flames you are either not happy with your current relationship and you have some doubts...Hopes this help
2007-01-08 16:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Pink~Panther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't in love with your fiance you need to stop leading him on. Now I'm not saying you should go back with your ex, because if you don't trust your ex then he isn't the one for you either. Maybe neither of these guys are "the one" for you. All I know is if you aren't 100% certain you want to marry your fiance, then you need to tell him that, and you need to sort your feelings about before you get married and make a commitment to him.
2007-01-08 16:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by ashleyrt1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly, ull be stupid if u dump ur fiance for ur x.. if ur x dumped u once.. how can u be so sure he won't dump u again in the future.. ur fiance is very protective, yes, but maybe he just needs some assurance that its him that u love.. talk to him.. if ur not ready to get married yet then dont put a date. u have all the time in the world to get married. if ur still confuse take a trip alone.. clear ur mind.. it will help
2007-01-08 16:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo_xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put the wedding date with ur fiance as soon as possible. if a man once is tested then why u want to test him again.
2007-01-08 16:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by classic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need professional help. you sooner would hook up with a cheated that dumps you with out a thought, for a nice steady caring guy, It sounds like he has justification for his insecurities with you thinking, I would be questioning you as well because of you needing this bad boy
2007-01-08 16:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When there is doubt, follow your heart to what feels right.
2007-01-08 16:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Chris M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to be treated like dirt or treated well, you decide.
2007-01-08 16:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by sidekick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋