How do u know if ur guy friend likes u as a gf or just as a friend or nothing,if u have some hints,like these?

Question

NO ONE knows this.I have been friends with this guy since 2nd grade.We r both in 6th grade now, and i started liking him in the middle of 5th grade.Now that we go to the same school,i thought we would hang out with each other,but he has other friends that use to be my friends when i went to his elementary school.We both go to an after school thing called the zone,and we at least get to hang out there.I only act like myself around him,and my other really good friends.Anyways oneday he said,i haveto tell u somethin on im,sothat night i had to force it out of him,n he said i have a crush on u,i said yeh right to act like i didn't like him,and then he said jk.I was so dissapointed,but then i thought,maybe he said that because he didn't want to seem like an idiot to me.Then i found out whohe liked n it wasn't me.We always talk and he thinks i am more popular than him,so i wonder if he uses me?I want him tolike me more than a friend,but idon't know if he does.How do i find out?HELP QUICk!!!!

He also doesn't hang out with me during normal school,unless he wants to cut in the lunch line,but i also do that to him,a lot of people do.He always laughs when i laugh,and he even said u always make me laugh,then i said the same,cause it is true,and i am not shy about admiting it.I think he told my old friends that r now his something bad about or good,cause they always glare at me when i/they walk by me.He barely signs on to messenger,but when he does,he says hi g2g,bi,but he says that to everyone.We both trust eachother alot,but when it comes to this secert i'm afraid that if he doesn't like me back it will ruin our friendship,it has already lasted a long time,but i want it to last even longer,even if he never did or will like me.He once told me that he wanted to become more popular, and that is y i think heis hangin out with people that hate everyone,but rn't really popular,he has become a wanna b,like his friends.He hangs out with me less,but is still my friend,HELP,ANSWER,FAST!!

he also always looks at me during school,but when his friends rn't looking,and he sometimes flirts with me,but not on a normal basis.I flirt with him sometimes but i don't want it to seem abvious that i like him a lot.but when me,him,and our other friends talk about who we like,and who other people like,they sometimes say jackie do u like (his name),and i say no in a serious way,and try not to blush,so i don't really flirt with him because then everyone will say jackie likes r***,om*g. My friends rn't lossers and only soem can keep secretsk,so they rn't the ones to like keep it a little group seceret,they r the ones to shout it out.Which is wut i don't want to happen.So i only told one of my bestest friends evar and she has kept it from the start.I have no clue wut to do,i have taken all of this time to decide wut i should do,i come up with one idea and then keep it,then i come up with another,and keep that one,so far i can't decide which one is the best.I am NOT to young to worry!!!!!

Answer 1

ok well this isnt gonna be the wisest advice u'll probubly hear, but its exactly what i would do. Get ur closest girl friend and tell her u like him. Tell her to go up to him and be like OMG guess who i just figured out likes u?? Then he'd say who?? the ur friend who say U(whatever ur name is) and if hes like ewww then tell her to say haha jk i just wanted to see the look on yer face, but if hes like i like her too then there ya go!!

Answer 2

You totally deflated his ego by saying ”yah right”. Then he had to back peddle to get out if it and that is why he said just kidding. He probably thinks his chance with you is blown, so why not go out with other girls? Why dont you IM him and tell him you really have a crush on him too. That is the only way you can save this. But depending on how much time has passed, you may be too late.

Good luck. And if it doesnt work out now, you have many more years and chances to go out with him.

Answer 3

Okay, sixth grade? Wow...First of all, I really wouldn't get too upset over this, you've got your whole life to worry about guys. But anyway, I'd say he told you he was kidding to save his pride, he would rather lie than face rejection. And guys your age tend to move on pretty fast, or at least pretend to. When he found out you didn't like him (or thought he had anyway), he decided to move on...or pretend to...guys are really confusing. And believe me, it doesn't get much easier.

Answer 4

if he cherished you greater then a chum then you definately could understand for beneficial. he could constantly ask you out, he could constantly attempt talk over with you, loaf around with you and so on yet once you're saying you dont like him to him then it could make him scared to open as much as you. you ought to tell him you like him and notice what happens and if he says he in basic terms likes you as a chum then proceed being buddies and recover from him.

Answer 5

well, you may get better answers than mine but i think that you should confront him. if he is using you then you got nothing to losr. if he does like you thats awesome! but if he doesnt your friendship should be strong enough to recover. you should jus ask him if he likes you. tell him you like him too. i think he does like you but you knida scared him away, with saying yeah right when he told you. if you really do like him tell him. and if he doesnt like you well..."its better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all." sorry if its confusing. the point is TELL HIM!!!