Kay so I cheated on my boyfriend not to long ago and he found out and broke up with me. (I deserved it.) But like when i was cheating (only once) i was just so mad at my boyfriend. Like I was with a group of friends that don't know my boyfriend at all and have never spoken a word to him. The day before we got into a stupid arguemnet but like I said sorry and he said sorry so it was no biggy i thought. Back to the topic though i was with my friends and they were just cutting him down and saying it won't last forever your young he is such a loser and just a whole bunch of stuff and than I started getting upset with my boyfriend just from the words they were saying. Than everybody left the room except my best friend and her "hook-up for that night" they just kept saying oh yea do it hook up with so and so and i was like no i have a boyfriend. they were like no you don't your breaking up with him remember. Than we were watching a movie and it happened. I cheated The next night he found out
2007-01-08 16:22:00 · 14 answers · asked by DKC36 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we cheat because we get tired of our relationship nd need 2 meet new people but we don't want 2 hurt our boyfriend/girlfriend by dumping them so we avoid it
2007-01-08 16:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by justsweetanough 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated on any of my past boyfriends until my boyfriend of 5 years had a sudden downfall on feeling like having sex. Sometimes I'd wait a 3 weeks to a month and before that it was like 2-3 times a week at least. I felt that he wasn't interested in me anymore and we even talked about it. He always said that he was too tired, so I slept with a friend I knew for sometime and ended up feeling horrible about it. I told him the next night and thank goodness we understood each other. Now we are closer than ever and it made him realize how much I wanted it and him. It still wasn't right, but I know I never want to feel so easy ever again. I'm just glad the sex is back to normal. That's my story.
2007-01-09 00:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by missy146833 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never have cheated and i never will. that is soo dishonest. i would feel so ashamed if i did. if you have a problem with your boyfriend then you talk to him about it. you did what you did becasue you wanted a reaction from him. you seem like you have zero self confidence and your friends are certinaly not helping, i think it's time to find new friends with more positive and healthy attitudes, especailly in regards to relationships. you are a victim of PEER PRESURE, grow up! you can't let other people make decisions for you that mess up your life! if you want to see someone else then you shouldn't be with your boyfriend.
2007-01-09 00:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I dont cheat, its selfish and inconsiderate, its also humiliating to the person that got cheated on..I think you need to re evaluate the people you hang out with..Maybe he'll forgive you and get back with you..If thats what you want, I wish you the best of luck..Just make sure you'll never do it again no matter what
2007-01-09 00:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by IceQueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No excuse you could have easily told this person you didn't want to do anything. Believe me if being ''mad'' is an excuse to cheat i think this whole world would be cheaters.
2007-01-09 00:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a folower and a cheater, you have no backbone or mind of your own, you just do whatever your friends tell you to do and your boyfriend is the loser?
i think he is glad that he lost you
go figure, a tramp
2007-01-09 00:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could never cheat on my boyfriend...even now when my boyfriend won't even talk to me and is telling my best guy friend to stay away from me, i could never cheat, no matter what. i wouldn't want to hurt him the way he's hurt me, its not fair to do that to people.
2007-01-09 00:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by natalie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters before marriage are usually cheaters after.
2007-01-09 00:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by EL-BRAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
immaturity...that's all it is..if u look at anyone who has ever cheated you will see that in reality they are very immature. think about it, if they were mature, dont u think they would have handled the situation in a more adult manner?
2007-01-09 00:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Michael D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young...it happens. We all do things we regret, and we learn from our mistakes.
2007-01-09 00:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋