he's not talking to me, i've called him [not too many times] i even sat by him at lunch and he said absolutely nothing. he just ate half his lunch and left. then a rumor spreading was that he is talking about me behind my back [a rumor, idk if its true cause he won't talk to me] but the rumor was that he said me and my friend katherine talk wayyyyyyy to much about celebrities and we need to stop thinking leonardo dicaprio is such a great guy, because he isn't...i just dont get whats wrong with him. the ride home from school was heartbreaking, i mean in his car he said nothing to me. im thinking he might be mad because i hugged my best friend conner [we have known each other since we were born, i love conner in that bff way] and i talked to conner but conner said they were cool...whats WRONG with him? and do you think thats it?
2007-01-08 16:13:38 · 15 answers · asked by natalie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
god, i can't stop crying i just don't even know what i did! and my friends arent helping, they're just like "you shouldn't have given him another chance, once a jerk always a jerk"
2007-01-08 16:14:52 · update #1
now i'm really going to cry. he called conner. he told him to "stop touching me because it isnt fair to him" what the hell is that supposed to mean?? conner is my best friend, we even applied to the same college [friends, friends, friends, NOTHING more] so he's basically told conner to stay away. i'm not letting this happen thats for sure
2007-01-08 16:22:23 · update #2
#1, lil mama, dont even trip on him. he's the insecure one, I see it all the time especially w/ the celebrity factor. i work in hollywood as a bodyguard for celebrities and i know what ur talking about, but on another note, if he's gonna act like a kid and not talk to u about the rumors, then that shows he's weak and insecure, if i were u i'd leave him, im sure a ton of other guys would love to talk to u. also just act like it doesnt bother u, im sure he will come running when he sees u dont care that he isnt talking and that now other guys are starting to take notice. and if he doesn't? then ur better off without him.
also let me get u in on this one...
those ARE NOT ur real friends! a real friend will b by ur side ALWAYS! no matter the problem. sounds like these are "good time friends" only around then the times are good...u sound like a pretty cool chic, so i would worry too much, i know its easier said than done, but trust me i been there done that way too many times and i can honestly say when i look back on it i tell myself, what the hell was i thinking?
so u do ya thang ma, dont ever let a guy or anyone for that matter slow ya roll!
2007-01-08 16:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Michael D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is jealous. I used to be like that at one point when i wasn't very confident with myself. ESPECIALLY when other guys are involved like that, he may just be jealous because of the hug. The celebrity hot or not shouldn't matter, and if that does then you need a new boyfriend. I guarantee there's no way he can look at Vida Guerra and say that she is not hot! Try and talk to him, talk to his friends I don't know. Eventually he will come to you because you can only be mad for so long.
2007-01-08 16:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by Clay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him how you feel on the next car ride or the next time he eats lunch. If he still does that then start a nasty rumor about him. It may not be the right thing, but it is the thing that makes you feel even.
2007-01-08 16:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hang in there! where's ur dignity! ACT like a true one! talk to him, ask wats wrong!
if he keeps acting like a complete fool then move on! even if u like him...if he likes u, he'll come running to u!
u know celebs dont care abt u and that's why u shuold not spend yr time caring abt them!
It's clear that if u spend ur time talking abt leonardo d. its very annoying! but that's not why he wont talk to u!
i think its conner!
u sound very immature to me!!!
2007-01-08 18:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Any 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him is the best way now.. cos u got a lot of enquiries.. u dont know why he's get mad, why he didnt talk... why??? a lot of wonder y here... & u cant think by ur own mind... u just Suspect... not told by him.. might be he's unhappy in his home's problem??? student problem or work problem... just take a time & try to talk to him nicely... ask him & tell him tat u have to know wat's the matter between u & him...??? if there's really bout tis relationship, u still have to face it by strongly,... ask him why & accept it... remember, not to hurt him, just love him.. love him, u have to respect his decision... god bless..
2007-01-08 16:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop beating yourself up! You haven't done anything wrong. Give your boyfriend some space--believe me, he will come around.
2007-01-08 16:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just ask him what is going on, if you dont know what
the probem is you can solve it. time to talk to him and find out
what really the deal is.
2007-01-08 16:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im sorry.. but sometimes they just need their space..
its not you.. its them..
i know how it feels to be ignored by ur bf..
but it wont last forever..so dont worrie.. so just give him some time and he will talk to you sometime soon (:
good lucck!
2007-01-08 16:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by classy.chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him set him free and if it's true love ,he will return.
2007-01-08 16:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by EL-BRAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to him about it!
2007-01-08 16:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by xo_mzbeck_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋