does it always seem to be such hard work? It almost seems like it's more work than it's worth! Any thoughts?
2007-01-08 16:00:23 · 7 answers · asked by perkadittle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think a relationship is only great when all of the hard work is worth it. Maybe you were in a lot of relationships that weren't worth the effort you put in to it...
2007-01-08 16:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Agitozecter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there...recently separated/divorced. It is hard work and you need to communicate a lot to maintain the relationship. But, if you feel that its stagnant and not moving in the direction that is productive and fulfiling...you may want to decide to move on
2007-01-09 00:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are a full time job you always have to work at it. if you really love this person then it wont bother you. just wait until you get married lol now that is a 24 7 job there. good luck an hang in there ( if you really love him)
2007-01-09 00:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by " Dixieland Delight " 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love may be complacated but if you think its not worth it then you must not love that person to much...if its right then it will all fall into place but that does not mean that it is not going to take some compramise and some time...good luck!!
2007-01-09 00:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like a guy then you'll build a really good relationship..it's hard work....but sometimses it pays off..just make sure that you don't build it up and then he or you just breaks it down
2007-01-09 00:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by PinkPanther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may seem like hard work but its not to me ---- i want us to work and will do anything i can to keep it going
2007-01-09 00:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that then you are in the wrong relationship...... love shouldn't be that complicated.
2007-01-09 00:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋