my mum is not talking to me at the moment beacause we had a small argument about maths, I am not very good at it and she wants me to improve i do to but we just seem to get into theese arguments about it then she gets annoyed at me and throws the book on the floor and walks off. How can i get her to start talking to me again................. what should i say do?????
2007-01-08 15:50:14 · 8 answers · asked by swimmer 4 lyfe :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just walk up to her and say mom im sorry we fought and im trying to do my best and i will continue trying but lets not argue i love you and your my mom. we should talk and compromise. if you cant help with my math then maybe we should get a tutor or talk to the school for help. thats what you say.. now u see sometimes parents are to close and have less patients when it comes to school work we ry but its hard sometimes
2007-01-08 15:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by nurse_barbiedoll05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom must have been quite good in Math at your age and hopes the same for you, and gets frustrated when she finds that you didn't inherit her Math gene, instead you inherited your Dad's low Math score gene.
Do let her know that, "Mom! I am not you, I can only be as good as I can be, you know I am doing my best here, you need to give me some time, a lot slack and patience. This way you will only push me away from Math forever, I am sure you don't want that."
Once she understands that I am sure she will give up her anger and tantrum and become more patient with you.
Kids have a wonderful way of offering parents ways to unlearn childhood habits and you sure are doing so unknowingly.
Know that, it is not her fault nor is yours, so don't blame yourself for her anger and tantrum, let her know that calmly and politely, someone has to act grown up here, don't you think so?
2007-01-08 16:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon what you propose by potential of chatting with herself and to what volume. I confer with myself while i'm questioning aloud, as do all my pals. Does she have conversations with herself? Does she confer with herself once you're attempting to speak to her? Does the guy she is chatting with tell her what to do? additionally you are able to desire to think of roughly what harm is it doing? So she talks to herself, that may no longer hurting her or every physique else so it won't be a topic. different than for my 0.33 question - if somebody is chatting along with her and telling her what to do then she must be schizophrenic wherein case she desires to make certain a physician.
2016-11-27 21:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she will help you get a math tutor, it may cost a bit of money or there may be people that volunteer to help kids with school subjects, get her involved, this will show her you agree with her and her being able to help will make her feel better, also remember to thank her for her help as adults who respect each otherr remember to acknowledge each othe with a thank you
2007-01-08 15:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her, and that you will at least try to improve. I'm sure she's not really mad--just a little frustrated.
2007-01-08 16:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL EHR THAT UR SORRY FOR THE ARGUEMENT AND JUST MAKE IT SEEM LIKE ITS UR FAULT... AND APOLOGIZE AND THEN JUST START TALKING AND LET HER KNOW THAT U WILL DO BETTER ON TRYING WITH UR MATHS
2007-01-08 15:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by peepsqueak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get better at math =]
2007-01-08 15:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cameron M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋