What is the best sexual position if your man has a small penis?

Question

What is the best position if your man happens to be small? It doesn't bother me that my latest boyfriend is a little on the smaller side. I'm more determined to find a position that works for us and is satisfying to both. He's about 5" and has trouble on occassion getting it up. It usually just takes a little more stimulation from me. Also, if he takes Viagra will that help him last longer or just help him get it up? He's on blood pressure medicine so I'm not even sure if Viagra is an option. We've "tried" once to have sex and he was able to finish but I don't think he realized that he was never actually inside me. Rather than make the situation embarrassing I just want to know how to help fix it so we're both happy.

Answer 1

i think you should talk to a doctor or a sex therapist by yourself. or maybe trying talking to him through sex so he'll be more comfortable. tell him that hes not in (i do that) and tell him when he is. help him and guide him.

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Answer 4

Oh, man, I know how you feel. Some guys I've really liked have been tiny and would constantly slide out and it would make me feel so awkward.

So ... I like being on top. That way you have control over the slippage but can still grind into his hips. Sitting in a chair facing him has also worked well for me. These might not (probably won't) get him off, but they've tended to get me off. Then you can finish him off orally. Or let him try anal, if you're comfortable (I imagine it wouldn't be too painful).

P.S. From behind is no good. Tried it many times. In fact, it may be the worst position for a guy with this problem.

I encourage both of you to practice oral sex more often. Nothing beats a man who's an expert with his tongue, no matter what size the member.

Answer 5

Hmmm . . . that really isn't that much below average, you know. About 1/2". Anyway, check this out for ideas:
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html
I've heard of the one where you lay on your back with your legs in the air elsewhere, so I think I'd try that first if I were you.

Also, don't take this the wrong way, but if you're fat, you might want to slim down to a normal size. You're going to look better, and it probably won't take such a long one to reach through to your vagina.

And for God's sake, don't mention a penis pump or say anything like "is it in yet?" You think it's hard for him to get it up now, it's going to be almost impossible if you say something like that.

Now that I think about it, if the guy has any cardiovascular problems, that's going to have an impact on his ability to have an erection. Not to mention, his medication might do something to his circulation. You could ask him to ask his doctor about it. Good night!

Answer 6

Sex Positions For Small *****

Answer 7

first of all ,

you both should do a 15min foreplay before you start making love , it will make both of you relaxed and will help him to lose his nervousness which can help him to erect smoothly.

the best way to get orgasm during the foreplay is , you ask him to lick your stuff slowly first , then he make it harder and faster and after 6min he should put two of his fingers inside you and play slowly while he is licking , then he makes the licking and moving the fingers faster until you get orgasm.

now it's time for him to be inside you , the best position you can do is : you sleep on the bed , you open your legs and you follow the squeeze position , it will help you to get the deepest penetration by a 5" penis.

ask him to make it slow , use condom and lubricant so it can make it longer. ask him to do it slowly , he should enter and take it out 7 times per minute which will be 28 times in 4 min. that's the average for a guy.

he shouldn't do it continuously , when he feels he wanna come, he should take it out and squeeze the head of his stuff for 15sec so it can make it relax.

the last point is about his erection , i suggest you to feed him spicy food 3hrs before you both want to make it. spicy food can increase the blood follow inside his penis and he can get his erection harder than before.

to your knowledge , you better take , chocolate , honey before you get ready for love making.

i wish it can help you both to enjoy SE*

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Answer 9

try kamasultra 4 example
bend over the bed so ur stomachand breasts are against the matress and your feet are on the floor,legs spread comfortably.as ur partner penetrates you from behind have him lift ur legs from above and thrust so basicly lie on the bed face down and have him pulling his penis into u and just tightnen your muscels

Answer 10

Men love their penises. From the time he is born, a man's penis becomes his best friend . He will love it, fondle it, get mad at it(especially when it stops working), respect it, listen to its opinion, and get in trouble for it.
Men are obsessed with their penises, even if they don't realize it. Most men live in constant fear that their manhood is not big enough. What they don't realize is that a recent study, involving 800 men of all shapes, races, and sizes, concluded that the average penis size is 5.5 inches .

So that's the size of an average penis. What's that sound? It's men all over the world breathing a sigh of relief. Now that this revelation has surfaced, let's get down to business.




How many times were you made fun of because your penis looked "shrunk"? Were you one of those guys who wouldn't shower after gym class because of embarrassment? You don't have to worry. Women don't care.

Who says size counts? A few months ago I was speaking with a friend who told me about one of her encounters with this wonderful lover. She described what they did in detail, and all this time I was wondering how big is this horse that my friend is sexing? Well guess what? He wasn't hung like a horse. As a matter of fact, he was more like a pony. This guy may not have had a big penis, but he certainly knew how to use his magic wand to please her and make her want him.

Women who feel that they aren't pretty or sexy enough because they have small breasts are like men who think that having big penises make them more manly and better lovers. The truth is that these men lack self-esteem and their self-worth is placed into their penises. Sure any woman would like to have a big thick bar to play with and suck on. It's like guys who are obsessed with big breasts.

Women simply don't care about size. There will be the odd ones who say it is very important, but they are usually the ones who love aggressive sex. For women, penises are marvelous toys, and no matter what they look like, they will excite women. Women do talk about their men's penises...often. But most of the time, the focus isn't on size; we focus more on what you did with it. In all honestly, we will spend more time talking about whether you wash yourself and smell good, rather than what it looks like.




Having a bigger organ doesn't hurt, but is it really important, when it comes down to having an intense lovemaking session with your partner(s)? In a recent poll taken among women, 82% agree that the quality of sex is much more important than quantity . In fact, many well hung men are known to be lousy lovers. First of all, if women feel comfortable with who you are, they will overlook penis size. If you are able to stimulate her with your personality , you need to do the same with your penis. Whether a penis is 4,6, or 8 inches, if used properly, it can satisfy her and give her an evening of passion and lust.

Answer 11

Doggy or you on top. Or buy a toy, at least when he's done and falls asleep you can take care of yourself.