me and this guy have been dating for almost 2 years but here for the past 6 months he has been very distant and he seems so far away he hardly wants to see me at all and then when we make plans to do something right before that time comes something else comes up that he cant so anything anymore and he promises me the next night and then again the same thing happens i am not for sure what is going on and i dont know what to do i really do love him and he says that he loves me but i am just not for sure if he loves me as much and he says he does plz help
2007-01-08 15:34:23 · 10 answers · asked by CARRIE W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don;t be too quick to rush to judgement - there is a chance that he might not be tried of you / cheating etc.
Perhaps he has other concerns:
he feels ill
he has developed a drink / drug / gambling addiction
he has some sort of depressive illness
he has become obsessed with Yahoo Answers and would rather stay at home with that.
You see, there are many possible reasons why he has become so evasive. I have to admit, on balance it will probably be that he is bored with the relationship but the only way you can find out is to ask him, calmly and in a non-confrontational way. If he says he loves you, he probably does, but the relationship might just need freshening up in some way. Good luck.
2007-01-08 16:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh Dear! By chance did you stand in the distance and watch my life with my love? lol Just sooo much the same. same ole! same ole! line. wow! Well this was 4 years ago for me. I did end-up taking all I could and I finally ask him, well rather told him I couldn't take any more. Either he was doing what he saids or I was walking. I needed his attention I told him Please! well we aren't together. so be prepared for what is more important to him. I wish you good luck. there is no reason, no person is worth it to live that way. So be ready to move on, Eventually you will be glad you did. If you need to. Once again good luck.
2007-01-08 15:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you,you must be very young not to see what is going on.This guy does not love you and you no he doesn't your not willing to face it yet.I no it hurts and we have all been there and we get through it until it happens again and again.Go out and find someone and let him see the two of you together if he loves you he will come running back to you if not then you will no where you stand with him. good luck!
2007-01-08 17:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly it sounds like he doesnt want to do this anymore.
most guys when they want to see you - do simply that. most cant be bothered to play games - especially if they didnt before.
that rubbish only starts when they arent happy anymore.
i think you should sit him down (if he will meet you) and ask him outright.
be prepared for an answer you may not like though.
a couple of weeks, even months of someone being a bit strange is one thing...... all of us have been there.
6 months is quite another.
good luck.
2007-01-08 19:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sweetheart the only way you're going to know what goes on in a mans mind is to ask him...from the sounds of it somethings bothering him and if you love him you'll want to talk with him...even if the worst case scenario it is really important for both of you to discover his true feelings and find the roots of whats bothering him.
2007-01-08 16:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by tash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hate to break it to ya, but sounds like my ex. either he is getting tired of the relationship or he is cheating on you. sorry hun don't fret though if it dont look good just let him now whats up and tell him you feel like somethin is wrong and to communicate whats up.
2007-01-08 15:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by BodyBuilder77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just ask him. If he's honest he'll tell you the truth, but be ready to deal with whatever that truth may be.
2007-01-08 15:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Heaven's Messenger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats troubling him. the only way your gonna know is if you ask him
2007-01-08 18:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you talk to him.. heart to heart. whatever is the result be ready.
2007-01-08 17:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by bubblegirl07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him
2007-01-10 03:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋