it seems like thats what a lot of guys want. it seems like everyone puts so much effort into it and then they end up breaking up or some drama. ive never been with a women, ive never had a girlfriend never even talked to a girl for more than a few sentances and im 22, sure i may not have gotten a few of the benifets of a relationship but didnt i miss out on a lot of the pain and wasted effort? is there something im missing here? or is sex really that great? isnt it just a base instinct? do you think rather than becoming depressed that i have never really interacted with a female, i should just forget it and take pleasure in the other aspects of life?
2007-01-08 15:34:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could. There wouldn't be anything wrong with that. I completely agree with you in how everybody just goes out with each other for a couple of months just to break up. Why bother? It's just a waste of money and time. But there is also a saying, "It's better to have loved and lost rather than to have never loved at all" Maybe, dating is just a little self discovery that people do. Either way, I wouldn't know, I never had a girlfriend. Besides, maybe you just didn't meet the right girl yet. Besides, you're only 22, I know it's weird for a 17 year old to say this, but you have your whole life ahead of you. No sweat! :D
2007-01-08 15:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Agitozecter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
annoying approximately that's one ingredient, experiencing existence is yet another. i does not concern or attempt to locate the best individual merely yet, yet going out on some dates will no longer harm the two. you will in all hazard face awkward circumstances, learn what to do and what to no longer do, yet in some unspecified time sooner or later with a view to learn, you will possibly desire a number of that. i'm no longer suggesting which you're a propose individual, nevertheless it must be properly worth taking the time to look internally to make certain you particularly are a effective guy and not putting on an act at some point. there are a number of adult adult males who declare to be effective, previously myself coated, purely to locate that it replaced right into a character with a great form of anger held up interior. a number of this experience got here as I grew older and won some experience from analyzing journals on courting web pages and with people. The word effective adult adult males end final does not carry genuine as we age -- the underlying component is maximum oftentimes self assurance. additionally, while you're delighted with your weight, then this is advantageous -- if no longer, then maybe it may be terrific to pay interest efforts on your self rather. till you're chuffed with your self, which is composed of your outward visual attraction, you will no longer be able to place your terrific self forward.
2016-11-27 21:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have no drive for sex that's up to you. Sex REALLY is that good. If you're a religious man then priesthood is right up your ally. If it is only females that you don't like...maybe you're gay. Or maybe you are just not actively sexual. Everybody is different but its up to YOU to find out who you are and why you are here. Sex is not the end all of life but without it all life will end.
2007-01-08 15:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Gwenith O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i totally agree with you. i'm 15, but i've never had a boyfriend in my life, although people have asked me out before. i've noticed that all my friends who do have boyfriends always end up breaking up with them, and they turn out to be depressed and...... BLAH. it all seems really stressful. i'm totally on your side, i just don't think relationships are worth it. but i have talked to lots of guys before, so i think you should too.... talk to some girls. that's the one thing you're missing out on. just talk to some girls. you may find one you really like whether you get into a relationship or not. but i still think relationships and dating are a waste of time. but idk... maybe i'm just weird like that :-p
2007-01-08 15:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥heartbroken♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes relationships are worth and not only for the sex --- that is only a small part of any relationship -- its the sharing and caring tenderness and just being able to interact so intimately with another human being
2007-01-08 15:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your talk is contraversial...
girlfriends are like sweets if u eat it then u r happy but if dont then also u r happy.
depends on the view of yours....
but take my personal advise as u have written u r 22 i think for u its time to take this sweet and eat....
sex i not the only essence of life..... but yes, its a part of life
enjoy!!!
2007-01-08 15:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by viv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No pain - no gain. You're not allowing yourself to live unless you open yourself up to loving someone.
2007-01-10 03:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 22 years old ,jump ,what are you waitng for
2007-01-08 15:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god do i understand this, but hey women and men all have trouble finding that perfect fit.
2007-01-08 15:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋