ok so me and this guy have gone on like 3 dates. our first date we went to the movies and sat really close to eachother, we were like leaning on eachother. our second date was on new years eve we went bowling and out to dinner and then came back to my house and he was over until 2am (we were watching a movie) and then on our third date we went to another movie and came back to my house and watched a movie and sat really close together and right before he left i thought he was going to kiss me. I am not sure if he was going to but he body language made me think that he might have. so does he like me? should i tell him i like him? and if i should tell him when?
2007-01-08 15:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by Jalana 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've gone on 3 dates with him.....he knows you like him already. Don't be in such a rush.....he's nervous and so are you probably. The kiss will come soon enough....he's just showing respect by not jumping on you like a pervert...a pretty good sign that he's a nice guy. Chill and let things take their natural course, I guarantee you the kiss will happen before a total of 6 dates happen.
2007-01-08 15:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he came back to your house twice until 2am I think he likes you. He may be a little shy, needs a little help maybe. Start with a kiss on the cheek, close to the lips the next time when he leaves after the date.
You could move into this by saying, "thanks for the great night, or I had a good time, at the point go to give him a non threaten hug and a quick kiss on the cheek. See what happens, if you like the guy take a little risk, even friends give each other a hug and kiss on the cheek, although that may be the opportunity that you need to move to the step of seeing if he wants something more. Maybe he will pull away, and at that point your will know he might not feel the same way you feel.
"IF ALL ELSE FAILS, ASK HIM WHAT HE THINKS ABOUT YOU." You could say, Hey we've been on four dates, I really enjoy your company, what do you think about me?
Good Luck
FINO
2007-01-08 15:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by FINO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him that you like him on your 4th date... That's like the worst thing you can do. He'll seriously thing that you're a psyco (sorry, but that happend to a friend of mine). Give it some time and just tell him in the middle of a sentence that you like hanging out with him. When you go to an other movie or so, when the movie is over just say, that was really nice...
Good luck!
2007-01-08 15:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by BES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words.
If he has asked you on 3 dates then he does like you. If he asks you out again then give him a kiss at the end of the date or some other good time. Once you kiss him then he will most likely respond positively. If not then he only wants to be your friend.
Once you have gotten beyond the first kiss then you can pretty much control the relation by signaling when you want it to go further and how much further, then let him take the lead. A lot of men are shy around women because they feel just as insecure as you do right now. If you account for that then you should do well. You can boost his fragile ego by letting him take the lead once your signal him that you are ready to go on.
Men like to think of doing things as reaching goals. He thinks it is more important to have the first kiss rather than the circumstances around it. If you want your first kiss to be magical then it is up to YOU to insure it. Start with holding his hand, if he is not willing to go that far then the kiss is off, if he is then lean your head on him, if he is still cooperative then you can choose your moment for the kiss.
I suggest that you rent your favorite movie (one that he is willing to watch) and kiss him during your favorite scene or during your favorite song from that movie. That song can then be 'your song.' It will be easier for him to remember if he can tie it to a movie. You will enjoy the experience, and your enjoyment of it will make him enjoy the moment as well. If you miss your favorite part of your movie you can always forget it and watch it another time, or hit rewind.
If by some strange chance he doesn't respond to the kiss (which I doubt) then you know that your relationship won't go any further. However, it is more likely that you will need to calm him down a little, because he is going to be as high as a kite (but he may try to hide it).
In your future dealings remember that if you want the moment to be special then you need to make it so. Most men will go along with it and enjoy it as best as they can. Otherwise they won't think about creating a special moment, they will be more worried about getting up to the point for the event. If you make sure it is special for both of you (mostly for you) and you give him clear clues (and let's face it simple ones to) then you will do well together. All you need to do is to tell him or show him that you are ready to go further and he will most likely want to go along. After you tell him you are willing them let him take the lead and provide some help if he needs it. This will help you cope with the fragile male ego.
If a boy goes out with you on four dates then the question isn't IF he likes you or not it is HOW much does he like you and is he worried about offending you and driving you off. All you need to do is let him know you are prepared, set up the moment, tell him you want to do it (or just go ahead and kiss him) and then let him take it from there. It is a little odd for a woman to take the lead, but a lot of teenager boys are too shy to do it themselves. You know he is interested, or he would not have taken you out after the first date. So you only need to gauge just how interested he is. Once you have a relationship then let him take the lead, but make it clear just how far you are willing to go.
Good luck.
2007-01-08 15:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your both afraid to make first move. To ease your mind yes he is interested otherwise why go on three dates! Next time he leans close plant one on him! someone needs to break the ice
2007-01-08 15:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mere fact that ya'll have gone on 3 dates so far SHOULD suggest to both of you that you like each other.
2007-01-08 15:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him u like him obviously he knows that though he may be too nervous so put your hand on his leg when you sit close maybe hold his hand and then he may kiss you but he is probably wondering the same thing and this may help him realize u r interested too..
2007-01-08 15:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by nurse_barbiedoll05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him first, some times guys are shy about kissing girls and are unsure if they're going to get slapped.
2007-01-08 15:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Break the ice already you two obviously like each other!
2007-01-08 15:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by bryce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, but unsure on how to act. Maybe your the one who'll have to make the first move!
2007-01-08 15:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by xo_mzbeck_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋