did he use me?

Question

i won't give you the whole story
yes we have had sex
we met on a cruise
he didn't really talk the first time during sex maybe because of nerves right?
and the second time he was really caring and constantly asked me if i was alright
we talked a lot before we even had sex ..we were friends..and he had slept over my room the night we didnt have sex and the other night when we did have sex
he wasn't with any other girls
he was very respectful, and always cared about me and what i had to say
sex happened in the moment which felt so much more meaningful
we hung out a lot, he got upset when he thought i was with another guy when i really wasn't
we hugged a lot, and he kissed me on the cheek a lot..we held hands
he told me i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and if we lived by eachother we'd be going out
he messaged me right after the cruise
and at one point i thought he was avoiding me so i sent him a message saying, "if you don't write back, then i know you don't want anything to do with me." and he just so happened to write back :]
i suprised him and visited him after the cruise
he was really happy and told me next time i should call so we could actually hang out
he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise

did this guy like me a lot..or did he use me?

Answer 1

you went on a cruise, you had sex with nice guy. move on. I can assure you if you stop calling him he will not call u anymore. I do not think he used you, I think he feels you guys just had some fun.

Answer 2

I think you were just a cruise fling. It was fun while it lasted but it is over now. Sorry

Answer 3

used you

Answer 4

well he likes u since u wouldent replie back if he was using u. good luck

Answer 5

I cant tell there is not much info to really know what happened..............................or why he acted a certain way....but i dont know maybe he didnt use u.