Guys just treat girls like crap! You cry infront of them and to them its all "Whatever! Guess I need to find another Hott Chick."
2007-01-08 14:58:44 · 36 answers · asked by kissmetillth3end 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They use us for our goods then dump us when a better package comes. They don't care about no one but themselves. all they want is girls to give give and give but when the word pregnant comes they dart like a cat out the door and to another.
2007-01-08 15:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by valerie h 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Rule #1, don't cry in front of a guy. Not all guys are jerks though. Some are sweet and actually faithful! They're few and far between. The whole reason men cheat or treat girls like crap is pure ego. Once you figure that out, it's a lot easier to tell them 'bye bye'.
2007-01-08 15:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 12:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys behave like that because girls allow them to. If the next "Hott Chick" would stop taking crap from dudes that act like jerks, then he would be forced to behave like he had some sense, or be alone. And let's face it guys are not going to be alone when they can have 'all of this'.
2007-01-08 15:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Pleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't treat girls like crap.....girls ALLOW them to. I'm totally serious about this....at the first sign of poor treatment from a guy, do NOT accept it....move on. Not all guys are jerks...it's a matter of weeding through people to find the right match....which includes someone that treats you with respect 99.9999% of the time. If he's treating you badly for more than 24 hours, you're enabling his behavior by letting him get away with it. If more people followed the "I'm worth respect" rule, there'd be a lot less heartbreak in the world.
2007-01-08 15:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I have wondered that forever, I think it's something wrong in their brain. LOL But I asked a question similar to yours just for guys to answer so I could see what they would say and they all replied that guys are like that because they don't want to get too involved...but in my case how can you get too invovled with someone that you were just talking to and have only seem in pics, you know.
I don't know what guy's problems are, they really need to grow up and realize that they are a dime a dozen, you can use em like toilet paper and then get a new roll...LOL
But who knows maybe your love life will start to look up for you, just remember when you do get a good guy don't ever lose him cause those are the hard ones to find...the rest are just practice...
Good Luck and I hope this answer was what you were looking for...
2007-01-09 03:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because someone in a relationship always ends up being treated like crap in a relationship. So why not you first?
Most guys have been jaded by some other woman. Before that he was probably a sweetheart. You just have to either turn the tables with this guy, or try to find someone who hasn't been jaded yet.
2007-01-08 15:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a Guy:
They are jerks because you let them get away with it. If girls would stop letting these a$$holes get away with treating you like crap, and realize that you, as a female, have the power to keep men in the palm of your hand. Also... there are benefits to dating nice guys. We treat you well, and make it a point to see that your needs are fulfilled in the process.
2007-01-08 15:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I think its because teen girls are too attached to their boyfriends. Young girls all want a relationship, but the young guys want sex. Once the girls grow up and have a career, they don't whine about boyfriends anymore and are looking to either settle down or just have sex with them like the women on that show Sex In The City.
Sorry I'm a guy, not a girl. But the best answer to a question about guys is from a guy himself.
2007-01-08 15:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry I'm not a girl but... I think you need to stop picking up guys in bars-- homeless shelters are much better--- pick up the volunteers.
I for one am horribly offended that you make such unreasonable generalizations. I have the same ******* problem. with girls. I cried in front of her... and she's horridly impasive. now then, I think you need some work here. not all guys are jerks.
just some. quite a few are. just remember this rule of thumb: the size of the penis is an inverse relationship to the size of the heart--- generally--- there are some exceptions. I am one. now then I've never judged a girl by her body--- oh yes, I notice it--- oh yes, I do--- but I don't judge by it--- the same rule applies for girls the models are total jerks. give me a nice geeky girl any day. @ any rate--- there are solutions to your guy problems... one of them, though you won't be receptive to this, as I'm a guy-- is loose that attitude. so sorry to say that. but drop it, m8r.
oh and btw--- you too have testosterone--- in slightly smaller amounts just like we have LSH--- testosterone is the sex horomone--- it makes u want to do it--- it also causes hair and muscle growth as well as a deepening of the voice and fat accumulation, and can cause aggressive tendancies. now then. there are a lot of guys who are basically nice--- yea we've all got problems, if we didn't what'd there be to love eh?
2007-01-08 15:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many of them are babies. They are also taught in our culture to bury their emotions. So they are uncomfortable with emotions, like crying.
I actually had a man storm out of my house while we were in the middle of a discussion and he hurt my feelings. I started quietly crying, and he stomped around the room for a little bit, then stormed out.
It takes all kinds. Let them find their "hot chick" somewhere else. You don't need a son. You need an equal, mature, emotionally stable partner. Keep looking, and move on from this bozo.
Note to john john above: I completely disagree. I'm not looking to "walk all over" men that I date and hook up with. I enjoy equality in my relationships, and I want men who are emotionally mature enough to express their feelings and listen when I express mine. Just sayin'.
2007-01-08 15:04:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋