The man[or pair], will leave father and mother and cleave to each other as one flesh,
There’s not to be abuse, misuse and trouble, both works toward bliss and happiness,
The family needs a decent environment as clean and education in God’s word at best,
There must be a budget and strict care of it to have the good name no one is careless.
Matt.6:9-13[care for debts]; Matt.19:4-9[one flesh]; #1. Good common sense.
Decent employment must be a goal that is accomplished for every plan to be a success,
The present day location and time,surroundings as country, city, state for a safety list,
Make sure all things are in order and functions and goals for each day will pass the test,
Be sure to remember to devote the time needed to your helpmate first, to all others next.
Gen.2:20[help meet or help mate]; # 2. Fruits of Gods spirit or conduct becoming man.
If as for a believer or a non believer and your pleased to dwell together in marriage bliss,
The non believer is sanctified by the believer as God has taken care to assure you this,
The power of each other over the other and for most the woman is subjected to the man,
Her respect for him as is Sarah called Abraham Lord, most are sure to be holding hands.
1Cor.7:2-10[marry]; 1Cor.2:12-14[believer sanctifies both]; 1Cor.7:32 [unmarried];
1Cor.2:11,15[To part, do not wed]; 1Cor.7:33[Married]; 1Cor.7:39 [Spouse deceased];
Do not compete, be an individual, respect and allow others to be different, enjoy variety,
Sodom and Gomorrah’s sin was you have got to be like me, you must give me total victory,
We all know the LORD did not agree, but rather see all have good godly trust and morality,
Just be a human being and be all you can be, have respect
trespassing on God's territory.
2007-01-08 15:05:39
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answered by jeni 7
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It is not a miracle, but I was 40 and the women I was dating was not right for me or me them. I refused to date anyone more than five years younger than me, but I got up one Saturday and gave it some real hard thought and decided to widen the field by dating younger women, but how young was the question. After a lot of thought I decided 23 was the limit because any younger was too much difference.
Well that day I went to the dance seminar as i did each month and I met this wonderful woman and we clicked and I began to beleive my luck in dating was changing, and she just happenned to be 23. If she had been 22 I would not have persued her.
That was October 10, 1992 and we married December 15,1992
The magic has never left our marriege, at least not yet. We just celebrated 14 years last month. She is now 37 and I will be 55 next month.
2007-01-08 23:22:26
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answered by Anonymous
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I met my wife in a nice disco club in Seoul S Korea when I was a soldier. She was hanging out with her freinds having a birthday party. I went outside, bought a bunch of ice cream treats and a hand puppet. It was a cute little teddy bear...I took the treats over to her table and introduced myself by using this puppet. It was kind of funny-i guess. To think I met a wife with some ice cream and a hand puppet. Yeah, that was 20 years ago. Things were good for along time. then, something weird happened. she became bi-polar and refused help. so, we have since split up and she lives somewhere in south korea. i will get divorced soon from her.
2007-01-08 23:07:11
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answered by dragon 3
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You want a testimony on marriage huh? Well let me begin by saying that marriage is a wonderful institution between a man and woman. Forget the the glamorization of marriage though marriage is full of compromise and compassion. I have been married for 13 years and there have been rough times but the one thing that has kept us together is the resolve to make the marriage work without that it will fail guaranteed
2007-01-08 23:05:15
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answered by r b 1
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Miracles? Hmmmm...
I married a girl who was WAY too good for me in every way.
Seems like a miracle to me, every day.
We met while she was on a date with my ex-best friend, and got engaged when she was still (sort of) engaged to someone else. And before you make any judgments about her, it was almost impossible to get a date with her in between because she was so loyal to her boyfriend. Toward the end of this long engagement, that relationship was going nowhere so they agreed they could see other people.
[Girls--beware of those "sort of" engagements! Usually it just means we're trying to buy time, or intimacy.]
She and I hit it off from the first, and became really good friends. I think you need to be good friends first, because hopefully you will be best friends for life. We were friends for probably about 7 years before we got married, and that was well over 20 years ago. We're still best friends and talk about everything.
2007-01-08 23:12:09
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answered by OldFogey 3
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It's really difficult the first 10 years, especially if you have children the first 2 years after marriage. It's really difficult for even those who really found their soul mate, and virtually impossible for those who are not compatible. However, it does have it's good points if you can work with your partner and agree upon a happy medium. It is best to have alot in common (taste-wise)... Such, if he is a sports fanatic, it helps if you like sports too... If he likes travel, it's good if you do to, etc.
2007-01-08 23:13:38
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answered by Time4Tivo 3
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One testimony here: DON'T DO IT! It's not worth it. There's no such thing as the right one. When you meet Mr.Right, you'll later discover his middle name is "Always." There won't be many miracles, but you can bet there'll be plenty of weird things! I speak from experience here.
2007-01-08 23:04:13
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answered by BuddyL 5
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nah, the Petty details of how we met isn't important.....the greatest thing about the marriage was the divorce! now that was a miracle in the making!!!
2007-01-08 23:04:20
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answered by Anonymous
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My grandparents were married for almost 59 years. I believe that is a miracle in itself.
2007-01-08 23:03:06
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answered by T's CRM SCNE 3
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meeting is nothing.............try living the rest of your life with the same person.........now that something to talk about.
2007-01-08 23:05:44
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answered by papa G 6
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