Would you be serious with a chick like this?

Question

On and off girlfriend moved away. Came back for Christmas, got me a gift I gave her something that I had been holding on to for her for awhile. She asks the first night that we're together if I want to get back together. I didn't say much. She tells me she loves me, we had a few sexual encounters. 2 when she was drunk and 2 when she was sober. Now she left and I didn't see her the last two days she was here. She claims I didn't call her back but I did and left a message then sent a text the next day. No reply till today when she was about to leave. She did this same thing the first time she left. I wanted to hang out with her family to show her I care about her and them, but everytime an opportunity strikes she never answers her phone. She is a very confusing chick. Last we talked she said she was busy getting ready to leave. I start to feel that I'm just her home state boyfriend and there's someone else wherever she lives. I've asked her but she denies. Am I just paranoid or what ?

Answer 1

If she really cared she wouldn't treat you this way......she'd be consistent. You deserve better than this out of a relationship....I'd move on. Being lonely is much better than being miserable.

Answer 2

Poor guy.....she probably does have a man wherever she lives and just doesnt want you to know or him for that matter....why do you think she gets off the phone so fast....try calling at a time you think she wouldnt be home and see what happens

Answer 3

Paranoia has little to do with it. Just ask yourself, "Do I need this much stress in my life?".

Just let her know that it's great to see her when she's in town, but this doesn't sound like a relationship you would want to volunteer for.

Answer 4

Dont care girls like this
find a nice and new one who cares about
Girls like tht like playing with guys, instead stay away from them.