Ok, frist you have to understand that i'm still in high school. She says she loves me, and says she won't go out with me, but because she just broke up. I've been waiting for her to dump her boyfriend for a while. She likes to "kiss and tell" if you know what i mean. Whenever she goes on a date it usally ends up turning into somthing sexual, and she tells me all about it. It just brakes my heart to see her go out with these guys that are just going to hurt her after they get what they want, because they think she is "easy." It is kind of true. But i love this girl. Should i go out with her. She has cheated on her past boyfriends. If i go out with her am i just setting my self up to get my heart broken? Please try and help me with this problem. And please dont leave some smart*** remark. This is serious to me.
2007-01-08 14:44:15 · 9 answers · asked by theholy.musiclover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus my friend has been gunning for this gal for a while and on top of that hiis sister says she "loves" me and wants to go out with me. But i'm more interested in the other gal. So will this ruin my friendship with these two good friends of mine?
UGH!! HIGHSCHOOL DRAMA SUCKS!!!!
So many things happening at once.
2007-01-08 14:48:23 · update #1
plus I would really like a womans point of view on this. Thanks.
2007-01-08 14:50:30 · update #2
no run forest run
2007-01-08 14:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all her dates end up sexual, she IS easy. Love is wanting the other person to be happy, so I think she she does not love you, she wants someone to dump on.
Promiscuity is often a sign of childhood sexual abuse. Ask her (Tactfully) if this has happened to her. Be careful in your dealings with her, because even if this is her problem, she will not give it up without lots of treatment, and you will be the one getting burned for it. If she didn't have this problem, then stay even farther away, because that makes her a big time user.
2007-01-08 22:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about her then don't go out with her, help her. Let her see what she's doing with these dudes and how it affects her, them and you. If you go out with her then she'll probably hurt you and then you'll dislike her. It'll ruin the relationship. Good luck.
2007-01-08 22:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by tallspot07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate hurting but so i "ll say this gentley
she is probaly just screwing with your head , she may love you but it sounds like she get it togehter don't break your heart
save your self pain
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runaway
2007-01-08 22:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, more than likely, if she gets with you she is only going to use you, or end up cheating on you, thats what it sounds like to me.
2007-01-08 22:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by hotty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it.
go for it.
you only live once!
2007-01-10 22:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stayaway from her......RUN
2007-01-08 22:48:33
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No........U got 2avoid her.
2007-01-08 22:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-08 22:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋