So i met this guy back in june...hes a promoter so we started going to the club he promotes for. We go pretty much every saturday. I always thought he was goodlooking but u know..it didn't mean anything. Back in the begining of December my friends and i had a party at the club and afterwards 3 of us hung out with him and his friends at their hotel. Things started happening. I stayed there for the nite. We DID NOT HAVE SEX, we just made out,cuddled and talked. It was nice. I dont really hang out with him outside of the club....untill this past weekend when he invited me and my friends for food with him and his friends. We had a nice time. He told me to add him to msn and what not. We been talking. Heres the problem. He has a gf. Most of his friends know i'm interested and are not trying to stop anyting. Some have told me to go for him. Hes very FLIRTY with me and none of my other friends. He is a nice guy in general. He used to talk about his gf but hasn't in over a month. What do i do?
2007-01-08 14:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by Katrina H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from him.
If he's going to cheat on his girlfriend, he's going to cheat on you. And you don't need that. Find someone better who actually deserves to be with you.
2007-01-08 14:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by RantingLover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say the thing to do is...notice the small things...
I do music and work with many promoters. Every one I've known always have 'women on the side'. You can recognize them by their extra sparky behavior (and trying to get a bigger percentage than their worth -lol). Seriously, they are players, I mean I have mway fun w. some good promoter friends of mine but that's just how they are. I would say that you keep this promoter guy as a friend to get in the hottest clubs with your girls at no charge (they know alot of people). Call him and go out as friends etc and find a really hot sexy guy that you want to make your boyfriend and keep it moving/
2007-01-08 23:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by babydll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you want a guy who has a girlfriend? He's not being respectful to you, his girlfriend or even himself. Cheaters are selfish. If he cheats on her (and he's already cheated on her by making out with you), he WILL cheat on you. That's not a cliche for no reason. If he's into you, he would've ended his relationship. He's still with her so something is keeping him there. I hate to be harsh but it sounds like he's just trying to get some on the side. It doesn't matter if he's acting flirty or is supposedly in a unhappy relationship. If you're not in love with someone, you leave them, you don't cheat on them. If you really want to be with this kind of guy, keep on seeing him when he can fit you in. Just don't be surprised or hurt when you're in his current girlfriend's position. Your best bet is to find someone who respects you and who is completely single. You deserve more than someone else sloppy seconds.
2007-01-08 22:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it all in the first four words..."He has a gf"
If he really wanted to be with you, he would have corrected that by now.
Men are like dogs...so don't break his training. If you allow him to flirt with you while he has a gf, then it only rewards his behavior. He can have his gf and you on the side. Of course his friends are telling you to go for it. They are his friends right? Their ties are to him, not you.
Teach him to be a man--by making him respect the woman he's with. I don't see why you would want a bf that is flirting around with another girl anyway.
2007-01-08 22:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is quite possible that although you think he is a nice guy he is just another player as most promoters are.
2007-01-08 22:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by larrydoyle52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys like that are players
2007-01-08 22:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋