I mean im kinda thnkn of marriage,i have a bf, hes christian,n b4 any1 says im a sinner,we dnt have a physical relationshp,wev been getin 2knw each other,ive knwn hm 4, 1 ,1/2-iv bn askn god,no ansa thats clear enough,any1 have any testimonies of how they met their hus/wife?thanx.evry1.
2007-01-08
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I believe you have prayed about him. Have you spent a lot of time with him,where you have been in lots of situations? Do you both totally agree on things such are you the same faith? Do you both want a family, and when? You both need to totally agree. I also recommend Christian counseling before. You need to agree on everything before the marriage, not wait until after. I thought I had made the right choice, but it didn't work out. Seek the Lord and listen. I got what I asked for, but that wasn't Gods best. I see that now.
2007-01-08 14:40:49
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answered by RB 7
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Keep praying, you will get your answer.
Marriage is a sacred institution established by God for the primary purpose of bringing Him glory. It's main purpose is not, as some think, to procreate, or to have companionship, or to fulfill sexual needs. No. It's primary purpose is to bring glory and honor to God. It is only in marriage that we are able to carry out the commission of God to replenish the earth and to subdue it. This commission by God can only be properly accomplished in marriage where the husband and wife in faithful, covenantal relationship purpose to glorify God by having children, raising them in a godly fashion, and sending them out into the world having trained them in the ways of the Lord. This is what marriage is for. It is outward focused (for God's glory), not inward centered (for our comfort).
2007-01-08 22:43:27
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answered by Jo 4
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I was not a Christian,nor was my husband.He ask me to marry him the night we meet.He told his family he was going to marry me.I was afaird of marriage.My own mother had been married 6 times.
But he was in a car wreak,almost died.I knew then I couldn't live without him.I was told he would never walk.
My real dad went crazy,said I would have to support him forever.Still I knew I loved him.
Well God healed my Husband.He can even dance.33 years married.We both love Jesus and serve Him.<><
2007-01-08 22:40:52
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answered by funnana 6
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Holy crap you are concerned with what other people think???
Do you live your own life or do you just go through afraid of what some narrow minded idiots are going to think???
It isn't about is someone from an invisible man but rather do they treat you well and do you love them. That is all that matters! What other people think is really a waste of time!
2007-01-08 22:38:29
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answered by Anonymous
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You discern , pray and do the best you can. Logic must rule.
Immotion often takes over and thats bag because it can cause you to go into denial if you see something bad.
2007-01-08 22:39:26
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answered by robert m 7
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He's obviously from God, because we are not like that. Sorry, all we want is to have sex with you, and we often mask our intentions with "love and gratitude" but don't take my word for it.
2007-01-08 22:40:02
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answered by Jamie 3
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Not quite sure if I deciphered your question correctly but I can tell you that your boyfriend is not from god. God doesn't exist so there is no point in asking him either
2007-01-08 22:36:49
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answered by Nemesis 7
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See if he missing a Rib.
I guess you will know. If, you both true Christians it should show. You will fell it inside your heart. If, something not feel right, then he not the one.
2007-01-08 22:40:10
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answered by Snaglefritz 7
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My girlfriend is a good Catholic girl, and her parents hate me because I'm this "abhorrent, sinful" atheist. But we're in love, so that's all that matters.
Please, learn grammar and spelling. If you're going to use vowels, use them consistently.
2007-01-08 22:39:44
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answered by Nowhere Man 6
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If there is peace about marrying him. Talk to your pastor or someone else who can help you, but if you really aren't sure then you should wait. Only if you have peace about it then you should marry him. :)
2007-01-08 22:38:37
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answered by Lexa 2
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