I have like this guy for about four months (ever since I met him) and sometimes I think he likes me too, but I can't tell. He has become one of my really good friends, now I don't know if I should ask him out or not. Something else that really helps is the fact that one of my best friends started liking him just after I did, and my other best friend is constantly telling me how stupid he is and how stupid I am for liking him. Please help!
2007-01-08 14:17:44 · 10 answers · asked by Emma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out! You're the only one who control's this whole game. If your friend likes her, beat her to him, and if your friend likes hating on him, ask him out, find out more about him, and prove her wrong.
2007-01-08 14:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by bigheadrossman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well who cares what your friend thinks, this is between you and the guy. You should definately ask the guy out, the worst that could happen is either he says no and you just remain friends or he says yes... you date for awhile and then break up and you lose a friend. But you're not going to lose anything just by asking him out. Make sure he knows your intentions if he agrees tho, you dont want to go out on 10 dates with neither one of you making a move on eachother or you'll be back here with the same question in a month.
2007-01-08 14:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Somebuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to ask yourself which one you think will last longer? Your friendship or a maybe could be relationship with this guy. If you and a friend like the same guy it's best that neither date him. A good friend is harder to find then a boyfriend. If you ask him out and he says no you stand the chance of losing two friends.
2007-01-08 14:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and i have the same with a girl at school i like her and i thinks she likes me too i have got some advice from my questions on here and i say just to ask him walk up and ask him if you really like him, who cares what your friend says forget them, if you like this person go for it and think twice just march up and give it to him. This i s coming from a shy kid who needs the same answers as you.
2007-01-08 14:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
above all else you have to do what you want to do and what will make you happy regardless of what your friends think or say. if your best friend likes him, you have to decide who is more important, the boy or the friend? hoes before bros? if he is more important you have to go with your gut and get in there and lay it on the line before it's too late. no time like the present!
2007-01-08 14:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by dixiebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to go out with him. Will that make you closer. Will it make you a better person. Evaluate what it is that you have and maybe asking him out might not be the wisest decision.
2007-01-08 14:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, your friend just sounds jealous
2007-01-08 14:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, and your "friend" is just trying to run you off of him. She is jealous of you and is scared she has no chance with you in the picture.
2007-01-08 14:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by spcresha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk to him.
Good Luck
2007-01-08 14:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK THAT FIRST U SHOULD KNOW IF HE LIKES YOU BUT I STRONGLY THINK U SHOULD ASK HIM OUT!
2007-01-08 14:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by countryismyrock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋