2007-01-08 13:56:13 · 21 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If its a women he knows then there's quite a possibility
2007-01-08 14:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well if it's someone you know or one of his ex's then yea... you have a problem. If it's a pornstar or some supermodle then it's not a hugh deal but still kinda weird. He should be using you at least half the time in my own opinion but everyone likes variety. I'd think about girls that weren't my g/f sometimes but not all the time. It would be more likely for him to do it if you guys were together for a long time and your sex life was getting boring.
2007-01-08 22:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Somebuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, if she's some actress or model. It's just a fantasy, and he likes the way she looks. He'd probably love it if you dressed or acted like her sometime.
If it's someone you know, that's a RED FLAG - completely inappropriate, totally disrespectful of you and a really bad sign for your future together!
In either case, if it really bothers you, tell him that...but know most guys do masturbate, and he might just do it a little more surrepitously.
2007-01-08 22:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. Considering there's only one person that could tell you what he's thinking, he had a reason for saying that. It's not likely to work for him except to get you to leave him. Since it sounds like he wants to break up and make you the bad guy, maybe you should play along and tell him "have fun chasing her... and PS: Hasta la Vista, baby!"
2007-01-08 22:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by SoCalSkierGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Is it the same woman over and over again? If so, then yes, you have a problem. He has a thing for her.
If it's just once per woman, then not really.
2007-01-08 22:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Egghead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and no. Yes if she is an actual woman that you know. No if she is a model or a porn star there is no chance in hell that he will ever meet her It would p!ss me off, though!
2007-01-08 22:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a hugh problem with this. if you don't feel like it or is in the mood wheather or not you know that girl doesn't matter its the fact that he is lusting after another women..I would feel very upset and neglected.. Talk to him about this and let him know how this makes you feel....
2007-01-08 22:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he thinking about anyone but you? sounds like there is a lot of pigs on here anwsering this question....men only need a varity because they get boring quickly....they need to learn how to spice it up instead of leaving it always up to us
2007-01-08 22:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by badkittykitty2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you could do wrong and make it worse is to be offended by this.
2007-01-08 22:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by adamsrm2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You may want to join him and help him out. It sounds like he wants you to.
2007-01-08 22:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by GG Alan Alda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋