how can you tell if the person that you are dating is married?

Answer 1

Ask them.

Answer 2

Simple: Ask him when you meet him next, immidiatey to take him to where he lives. Bring a friend along if you want. Call it a get together. Now if he is nervous about this or tells you b**l then, bang , youv'e got him. If he takes you then you will notice various things , fine detail , that will give the game away if he is married or attatched. If, on the other hand, he refuses, bingo, he's got. You of course could try just asking, but then again, if this was on your mind and you didn't suspect something, you wouldn't be asking this question.
If he is honest with you then well and good. Youv'e got yourself someone. Even ask his friends also. However, if you experience any sort of difficulty or excuses at all or temporising, you have youself a live one. If he says about trust , then reply that you have every right in a relationship to KNOW, not wonder, that it is true and bonifide. Also if he is genuine, showing you will not mean a thing except to confirm gladly his love. Also trust is an important part of any relationship. But you have the right to trust a genuine relationship for a start, not be left wondering wheather or not it is.

So, if you is genuine and loves you, then he will only be too glad to set your mind at rest. If he is not, then the sooner you find out the better. You have a life to live and every right to live it. And accurate information is a very important part of it. So find out and good luck.

Answer 3

Check out his/her ring finger? It may still have a tan line or mark where a ring should be. If He/She can call YOU but you can't call them? He/she only comes to your house and you don't go over to theirs. Dates are always private, no friends, no parties that include friends or HIS/HER family. Dates are dinner, movie, sex and goodnight. He/she doesn't sleep over? He/she hasn't mentioned taking you to meet their parents. They drive a sadan or family type car? They don't have conversations about their life, (maybe work).

On and on.....Weekday lunches, day dates, their nights are taken so they can't see you? Not available on weekends, if so, it is brief, take out meals and car sex, hotels or YOUR place?

You should ask! But married people will lie of course!

If you have any thought that the person you are dating is married then simply suggest a romantic dinner at THEIR place? It should be NO problem, IF that person is truly wanting to "date" YOU. It is NOT and invasion to uphold your own standards. You have a right to know the person you are being intimate with.

Answer 4

First ask them point blank. You can usually tell if someone is lying by how they look or should I say don't look at you. Also if this person gives you their cell phone number and not a regular phone number or their work number instead of home number. That would be a definete clue as they wouldn't want you calling in case their spouse answered.

Plus on Valentine's Day - you will probably see the person after they spent time with their spouse. Good luck! ;)

Answer 5

Are they unavailable at certain times of the day or week? Do you ask them to go out Friday or Saturday and they always have an excuse why not? Do you have their home number and can you call it whenever you want? If you have their cell number, does he ever answer in a quiet voice and then tell you that they'll call you back later? Are they secretive? Do they have a tan line where a wedding ring should be (in the summer)?

Answer 6

He won't give you his home phone number or invite you to his place. He always takes you to out of the way places where you won't be seen by anybody. He doesn't really care to meet your friends. There is a tan line where a wedding ring should be. He is only available at certain times, like afternoons.He won't spend the night. He is never with you on holidays. He checks his phone constantly. I could go on and on, Honey!

Answer 7

Look for warning signs such as the individual won't allow you to come visit him or her at his or her's house, the person is constantly having to leave abruptly, he or she has a wedding ring indentation on the left fourth finger, or you could ask the person you are dating straight out. If they lie to you..follow them home one night and see where they go.

Answer 8

First thing is to ask. If you are suspicious, stop dating him/her. If you want to look for signs - the mark of a ring on the ring finger, but no ring, doesn't give a home phone number, often can't be reached, no late nights, etc.

Answer 9

if he is secretive. Like not wanting to know where he live. you can only call during these hours or cell phone only. follow him i would see where he lives get a home # and listen to the machine from a payphone that is how i found out the guy i was seeing was married....

Answer 10

Ask them first off. If they won't tell you where they live, that's a red flag. If they don't answer their calls in the evening or early morning, that's a red flag. If they never invite you to their place, that's a red flag. Any ring tan line on their left hand ring finger?

Answer 11

Well...the obvious are they wearing a ring? or have a "tan line" where a ring was but is taken off? Acts weird has to be home at a certain time. Vague about where he/she lives? Just some ideas.