i cant believe im going to post this and have people repsond but my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 and half months . we're 13. and we haven't kissed. i' ve kissed people before , not like making out or anything and im not a walking hormone, so don't judge me on this one. but i was just thinking that maybe , since im his first girlfriend and would be his first kiss , if i should make the move ? or is it weird for girls to do that and should i just wait? we've talked about it and hes told me he wants to but i think hes nervous. hes a sweet guy and i don't need him to kiss me to be with him . but i guess i've just wanted to. should i ?
2007-01-08 13:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by ashlee_04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could be respectful of you and your person. To him a kiss could mean something completely different than it means to you. Just drop the subject. Enjoy his friendship. "Making the first move" could drive a good friend off.
2007-01-08 14:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess on the next date if he doesnt make the move then he is probably shy and u could probably help him a Little bit, like get closer towards him and make it a nite u wont ever forget and Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-08 21:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it he already told you he wants to but he nervous, there is nothing wrong with girls making the first move, we can do anythink. This will show that you can make your own decisions without seeing if you should wait for him to make the first move.
2007-01-08 22:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, if you've talked and he wants to make the first move, then let him!
Imagine you making the first move, and being rejected because he's not ready...just wait til he's ready. :-)
2007-01-08 21:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. Slow down girl or else you're gonna be a single mother soon.
2007-01-08 21:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit worrying about this. it does not matter who makes the first move...if you want to kiss him, then do it.
2007-01-08 21:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait for him to kiss you. Then you'll know that he's ready for it.
2007-01-08 22:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you say bye and by now you should hug.my boyfriend was the same way. what i did whith my boyfriend wass well it was winter and i asked him if my lips were cold and i said i think he should find out.
2007-01-08 21:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by beautygirlchick2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move, but make him kiss you not vice versa!
2007-01-08 21:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by pghpanthers2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-08 21:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋