My guy friend comes over a lot and always flirts with me. I get really uncomfortable around him and that will most likely ruin our friendship which is not something I want to do! He always is there for me whenever me gal pals get on my nerves and he is straight but he always talks to me about going out! I want to be his friend but not his girlfriend because I am taken and we already tried going out once and it was HORRIBLE!!! I dont know what to do!
2007-01-08 13:53:42 · 7 answers · asked by 5ft Beauty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to hit the road--you are taken and he's already blew the freindship because you now are uncomfotable around him.
You mad the mistake of letting him take you out to begin with.
2007-01-08 14:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you need to make it clear to your friend that you only see him as a friend and nothing more. you should tell him that his flirting only makes you uncomfortable. if he really is your friend, he will understand. but if he really does want more than just a friendship, you have to be prepared that he may not be able to accept that and will withdraw from the friendship. good luck! good friends are hard to come by.
2007-01-08 15:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by somegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to him....or just hint it out like A LOT always be saying i love having you as my best guy friend and like if you say i love you say.....i love you, in a friend way. but if you talk to him tell him you don't want to lose him ever as a friend and you don't feel right having him flirting with you and just don't want things going too far that in the end you aren't friends anymore. Good Luck!
2007-01-08 14:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have a bf and that ur not comfortable with the way he talks to you. its the only way that will get him to back off a little bit. let him knoe u only wana be friends and its all u ever wanna be because nothing else works. and make shure u tell him u love ur guys FRIENDship.
2007-01-08 13:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by luv2dance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that contacting him even as she extremely would not understand plenty about him isn't secure. She might want to proceed, yet enable her understand the consequences and then enable her make her decision.
2016-12-02 00:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by cutburth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him youre uncomfortable?
2007-01-08 13:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell him that he's a best friend material not a bf material.
2007-01-08 13:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by anette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋