Isit true that 1st time sex will bleed? Also, how can i tell my bf that i am no longer a virgin.? I love him alot and i swear i only have sex with my 1st bf as he is my 1st love and i was naive. After that i do not have sex anymore. Will my current bf belive me?
2007-01-08 13:47:35 · 15 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your question confuses me-did you sleep with your first love while in a relationship with your current boyfriend with whom you have not had sexual intercourse? If so, I'm not sure what you'll want him to believe you about, but I am sure he'll be pretty mad. And as far as bleeding the first time...didn't you have your first time? Shouldn't you know the answer to that??? Sounds like you need to stop focusing on sex and start focusing on communication.
2007-01-08 13:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by samiam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he ask you in the first place?
You see, many girls are worried about this issue. They are worried that their boyfriends would turn them down or dump them if they are not a virgin anymore.
First of all, ask yourself what you want. Anyway, you already know your situation. There is nothing you can do to change the fact. You just have to face it.
If he didn't ask, you do not need to say anything. Bleeding or no, is not the proof of virginity.
2007-01-08 21:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking if you bleed when having sex for the first time, if you claim to have already had sex? If youh've had sex, then you know the answer to that question...right?
As for your current guy, it's not his business whom you've had sex with, nor yours his. Don't worry about that...if he only wants to have sex with virgins, then he's not worth messing with anyway. Are you sure you're ready for sex though? Doesn't seem like it...what about pregnancy? What about STDs? What about birth control and condoms?
2007-01-08 21:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you bleed the 1st time because your basically "ripping" yourself. some girls bleed alot and some bleed a little. some none at all. it depends on the female.
just tell ur bf ur not a virgin. if he loves u, he'll respect it
2007-01-08 21:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by luv2dance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've lost virginity then why are you asking if a virgin bleeds the 1st time??? Shouldn't you already know?
If you are a virgin, you shouldn't lie about it or be ashamed.
2007-01-08 21:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just tell him he most likely will believe you but the longer you hold back the less likely that he will believe you.. say something like this to your current boyfriend when your hanging out and getting ready to do it- I'd kinda like it if you could be slow with me for our first time because with my first boyfriend when we had sex and it really hurt, I've only done it that one time but I would like you to be easy with me, whatever you decide to say make sure you kinda pause a little between the sentences :) :) :)
2007-01-08 21:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell him its OK, unless he thinks your a virgin cause you told him that. If you stuck a object up their to masturbate it can pop the cherry and you would still be a virgin so that can be an excuse for not bleeding
2007-01-08 21:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to your current bf if he will believe you. If he loves you and you do not have STD's, then it should not matter. Just make sure you both are coming clean about your sexual pasts. For your own sake and the sake of your partner. Be safe and wear condoms!
2007-01-08 21:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first time will not always bleed. It's just for some girls. And if your boyfriend is truly your first love, then he'll understand. I'm sure he'll be hurt at first, but just reassure him, that your feelings are for him. He's your number one no matter what.
2007-01-08 21:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by pretty shy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't always bleed the first time you have sex...and why tell your boyfriend you aren't a virgin....did he ask if you were ???
If he does ask, ask about HIS sex life...unless you have an STD or HIV I wouldn't tell anyone about my sex life..it's no ones business, boyfriend, husband, etc...
2007-01-08 21:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋