I am with a great guy..we started dating 2 months ago...he is awesome and we both are really into each other. He lives in another state so we don't get to see each other much but he is originally from here so I knew him before. When he was in over Christmas, we had a great time...making out and everything...but he would never go fully through with having sex. He said he wanted to, and that I was making it really hard to resist me. Is that a compliment? Is he respecting me? Or what is his problem. He is the nicest guy ever...and I know he really likes me...I just don't know what he won't go further. He never really told me why...we just kinda stopped making out...or whatever we were doin :)
2007-01-08 13:38:01 · 18 answers · asked by Daisydew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ITS CALLED RESPECT DONT LET HIM GO THERE ARE NOT MANY OF THEM LEFT.
2007-01-08 13:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by wandawoooo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never met a guy who does not want to have sex. All we do is talk about sex--Trust Me. Guys can get DSB--deadly sperm build up. He may have something that he thinks would run you off. My cousin for example only has one testacle. He might have performance anxiety.... You know where he thinks if he doesn't please you in the sack you'll leave him. He's probably a virgin scared of the unknown. You may want to say to him, "Baby it feels to me like there is something you want to tell me but you're afraid to. In order for our relationship to grow we have to take some steps in that direction. Emotionally I feel it's time for us to grow as a couple and if you're not ready to make that commitment than you need to let me know so I'm not in the dark. " Then it's up to you if you want to stay with someone who isn't ready for a relationship or their interest level in you isn't the same as your interest level in him. Take it a day at a time........
2007-01-08 22:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by yeehaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being honest....
It could be a variety of reasons,
he could be unsure of things,
maybe embarrassed about performance in the bedroom,
Becoz even nice respectful men want sex,and theres nothing wrong with that.
Maybe the best thing to do is ask....
If he's such a nice guy then he should be upfront and honest.
2007-01-08 21:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) He may have another girlfriend and your just fun on the side
2) He has an STD and waiting to be safe to have sex
3) He has sex problems and insecure at the time
4) You may be the one and want to wait for a special night
5) He is not that in to you to have sex
6) You smell down there and hes not ready for it
7) Respect for you
8) ASK HIM!
2007-01-08 21:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats a great compliment but i think he realy respects you to not do it
but dont just go all the way at first start with the smaller things like 4 play
2007-01-08 21:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he is more inexperienced then you and is worried you may judge him. or maybe he is a virgin. Wait until you are lying in bed together, and just let your hands adventure undercovers, get him all hot and bothered. or just come out to him and ask him what his delais and why he is not into having sex with you.
or maybe you are moving a little to fast for him, and he feels uncomfortable and wants to wait longer, because he was raised with morals
2007-01-08 21:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is worried about getting too close if you live in different states. It sounds like he is really attracted to you, but respecting you.
2007-01-08 21:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by leah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably has something he's been meaning to tell you, don't pressure him and respect his wishes. It's most likely not about you, it can be a million possible reasons that are purely his own. Maybe he's a virgin?
2007-01-08 21:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by The Small Elephant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy sounds like he respects you so maybe he is just waiting for the right time to go all the way. give him sometime and yes discuss it with him
2007-01-08 21:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by KELLY W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he is a he? Maybe he is scared. Maybe he got in a bad accident and lost his penise. Maybe it don't work. Or maybe he is like all men - considering what is best for you. Right? Do you put on purfume? Try phermones!
2007-01-08 21:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jekyl and Hyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he deserves a medal.
A decent guy and bad news standing in the wing.~~~~~
To answer one of your questions, his problem is you trying to bring him down to your level. Shame on you.~~~~~Jill
2007-01-08 21:53:54 · answer #11 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋