Ok, so all the women on here say "Meet a nice woman at church." How does that work?

Question

Am I supposed to believe that I should prepare pick-up lines for the sign of peace?

"Peace be with" "No, hun, peace is being with you." (then I wink)

But seriously, I'm curious what you all mean by meeting women at church.

I'll add I'm Catholic so I don't know if that changes anything.

Thanks, I'm not a moron. That's called a joke, hence the "but seriously" on the next line.

Answer 1

see, i'm not sure if church is a good pick up place. I tried dating people in church when I was a teenager. Everyone knew my business.
Go to college, where you can meet some nice, smart, pretty girls.

Answer 2

No, not pick-up lines.

Get involved at church - that means more than simply going to mass. For one thing, you could always arrive early - then sit next to someone and introduce yourself. Say something like "Hello, I'm ____. I've seen you before a couple of times."

Volunteer! You can help out at church picnics or barbeques, or help at bazaars or clothing collections. The more involved you get, the more people you'll meet. Join the choir, or help take up the collection. Even if the choir is made up of mostly older women, remember that they may very well be impressed with what a nice, church-going man you are, and want to play matchmaker with their daughters, nieces and friends children.

Finally, keep in mind that different churches have different compositions - some will have plenty of young singles, others will be mostly families or older parishioners. Ask your priest if he can recommend a church in your area that has a younger congregation where you might fit in.

Answer 3

I don't think that church is neccessarily the best place to meet a woman. I think that you are right that the sign of peace is the only opportunity to talk during Mass--not exactly enough time to get a good conversation going. If you want to meet a "church girl," you should probably join church activities or a committee or something. But, honestly, if you are only doing it for the opportunity to meet women, it will probably take more effort than it will be worth. I'd suggest meeting women though a dating website and targeting your search toward religious women, if that is important to you.

Answer 4

Well I disagree with the church thang because I was in church for a long time.Church somtimes isn't the place just because they go to church don't mean they GOOD Women(smile) go to the park,plays,church too but don't let it be your focus.Have dinner parties with friends etc.You can meet a nice women even in a grocery store somtimes.Good Luck hey chill out don't go looking for them that good woman will find you..

Answer 5

I have heard about meeting singles in church, I guess,it is once a week get together party to meet people,of course after the sermon and prayers. Check it out, you might met a real nice woman to a nice peace (ful ) life together. Good Luck!!

Answer 6

no it don't change anything that your catholic just find a church and start attending you will meet people there and might meet a few singles. alot of places life coffee shops ect have like one night a week or monthly where christian singles come to hang out and get to know other christian singles in the area Good luck and best wishes

Answer 7

hhmm Catholic is a little different. Do you guys have church lunchs. for special events or sunday school class. Some of the ladies who are there. Become Friends first and then go from there.

Answer 8

not all ppl that go to church have the same beliefs. Not all of them are good..but not all are bad either. It's a really good start tho.

Answer 9

well, go to church and find out

Answer 10

Just be friendly and talk to them.