Will you *be* a joke? Absolutely not. What you are has nothing to do with any disability or handicap you have.
What you might experience is other kids who have to feel better about themselves by picking on others who are "different" than themselves. It says nothing about you, but it says volumes about them.
Fortunately, however, you will likely encounter other people at school and other places you might go (like church or Scouts or other places for kids to hang out) who will genuinely like you for your heart, your soul and your personality. Pay attention to those people, and allow the belief that you are worthy and good drown out anything that any callous, cold and nasty people might say.
You can never be a joke unless you act like a fool. Which means that in reality, anyone who would tease you or be mean would be the joke.
I'm 41 years old and I went through hell in high school - for no particular reason, other than I just wasn't in the popular crowd. I survived and came out strong. So can you!
I wish you the best :)
2007-01-08 13:39:36
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answered by tagi_65 5
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There are a few jerks in every school. My nephew is 9 years old and has a disability that some times causes him embarrassment. Some kids at school used to make fun of him until his mom and dad complained. The principal read the riot act to the kids giving my nephew a hard time. He has not been made fun of or bothered by other kids since.
You might have some trouble with a few kids. If they bug you too much just have your parents contact the school principal and complain about it. In the past, no one did anything to stop that sort of thing. But today, with people having a heightened sense of awareness of people with disabilities, if you complain, the school will likely drop the hammer on anyone giving you trouble.
Just remember, anyone giving you a hard time is an ignorant jerk.
2007-01-08 13:47:54
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answered by Anonymous
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I went to public school, and I had juvenile arthritis, I actually used to fall out of the desks because my knees would lock up. I did everything the best I could and no one joked about it. You are very sure of your disabilities, but concentrate on your strengths. You may not be on the track team but look at other things you can become involved in and make friends at.
2007-01-08 13:38:58
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answered by fancyname 6
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u know people will sometimes be ignorant and that's just life. Be yourself dont worry about any nonsense at all they need to be focused on a education instead of worrying about you but dont worry, I have a son who goes to public school with a medical issue that he was born with but it's only an issue to them not my son so he doesn't pay them any attention. Good luck and it will be ok.
(over the age of 25)
2007-01-08 13:43:13
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answered by SingleMommy 2
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Im 16 and went to public school my whole life.
I'll tell you right there will be some jerks that will laugh, but if you ignore them you will be fine. Let them think your a joke and you will grow much stronger as life goes on.
The main thing is dont let them get into your head.
GOOD LUCK YOU WILL BE FINE
2007-01-08 13:40:50
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answered by Leandro 2
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I'm in eighth grade at a public school.
No, as long as you act normal...
Some people take advantage of the 'pity' they THINK they might get and act mean, childish, etc. and it's really annoying for some people. Just don't attract attention to it or try to get attention with it and you'll be fine.
2007-01-08 13:39:45
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answered by ccjcjl 2
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No you will not be a joke, be your self open honest and funny and above all be the first to laugh at your self than ppl wont be tempted to do it behind your back and hurt your feelings. Make friends many friends and they will stick by your side. my age is 54
2007-01-08 13:38:23
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answered by wandawoooo 2
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im really hate to say this but if u go to a public school and no affense but w/ a bad leg then YES but if u go to a public school and your grademates arent nnormal like dont talk about people then no but im in 6th grade but im popular and every1 likes me and i play b-ball but in my case i would say yes im about to turn 12 well bye but if u want to u can email me @ berrycute_72@yahoo.com well tootals
BLONDE
2007-01-08 13:41:12
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answered by Anonymous
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haha good well i bought a intercourse funny story for you wish you adore it :) on listening to that her grandad had simply died kate went and visited her nan to relief her whilst she requested how he died her nan replyed by means of sayin that he had had a middle assault whilst makin love two her kate stated that it was once foolish that two historical persons wherein havin intercourse because it was once askin for hindrance her nan replyed by means of sayin that they used to do it to the gradual speed of the church bells because it was once simply the correct pace she then wiped a tear from her eye and carryed on by means of sayin''if that dahmed ice cream van hadnt come alongside he might nonetheless be alive in these days'' :) xxx
2016-09-03 18:38:25
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answered by miyasato 4
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YES
2007-01-08 13:36:58
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answered by Mic 2
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