i'm only in high school and i really love this guy..i just cant talk to him about the break up because i promised him we wouldnt talk about it....i dont wanna get my friends involed so i guess i'll just ask a stranger...i hope you guys can help me..
2007-01-08 13:29:15 · 5 answers · asked by XOXO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two options: 1.) Don't be around when he's around. The best way to get over someone is to not be reminded of that person... or 2.) Deal with it. Pretend like nothing's bothering you and that he has no effect on you when he's around. Be his friend without being too friendly.
2007-01-08 13:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your EXACT same situation. I had a girlfriend who's still in high school presently (I'm an alumnus now); things didn't work out and we remained friends even though I still loved her...or at least thought I did.
The truth of it all is that, you will see your partner move on with his life. You will watch him go through other experiences with other girls and make decisions that you don't necessarily appreciate. It's a harrowing and painful experience to have to watch someone who used to be so close, drift so far away. Wow, that sounded really emo.
Simply put -- if you're okay with observing your ex-boyfriend as he goes on to develop relationships with other girls and make choices that you won't agree with, then you're doing everything correctly. The BEST thing for you is to move on. It's hard and it takes LOTS of time and determination, but it IS possible. And there IS more than one Mr. Right out there. As you develop interests in music, cultures, fashions, lifestyles, and such; the list of people you find physically and emotionally attractive will change too. And after you've recovered emotionally, you'll realize that there ARE other options. Hope that helps.
2007-01-08 13:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely tell him in a joking way that he's interferring with the little time and you and your boyfriend have mutually. Ask if he might desire to decrease lower back the visits somewhat, so as which you will savour some on my own time with your bf. tell your bf to apply you as an excuse and tell him which you have become aggravated because of the fact he's spending too a lot time together with his acquaintances rather of you.
2016-12-15 19:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have no contact with him for a while, as hard as that may be its the only way you will truly get over him. just explain to him how your feelin and why your askin to have a break from him, say a few weeks or even months, just so you can get yourself sorted out, maybe then u guys can be mates again.
2007-01-08 13:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I have the same thing! I went out with this guy for 6 months (im in colledge) and than we broke up. We got back together the next day but I broke up with him again the fallowing day. Sence than its been a rollercoaster of ups and downs and my best friend... IS HIS IDENTICAL TWIN SISTER! ya i know bad situation, so I cant talk to her about it, but i feel like im stull in love with him. hes immature and thats why we broke up but theres still something there. Were best friends but sometimes I want to slap him and sometimes I want to pounce on him and kiss him! Im so confused, as for know I just act sweet tward him and flirt. if i really think its wright than Ill talk to him about it... i reccomend you do the same.. its what you halft to do.
2007-01-08 14:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋