ive given my boyfriend bj's and for some reason i have the feeling its not as good as it could be, any guys (or girls) know of ways you like the best, or ways it could be better? thanks...and please dont "report" this question, its serious.
2007-01-08 13:22:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know, im sorry i spelled boyfriend wrong.
2007-01-08 13:25:28 · update #1
stop pleasing him, did he do anything to please you? ask him to strip and dance for you, you may stick some ice up his a**, it's fun.
2007-01-08 13:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God Bless You. My girlfriend in high school loved to give me a bj. I always stopped before climax because I thought she wouldn't like it. No way. She loved it. Boy was I spoiled. I have never found a woman like that again. Women like to get you going but always say "Don't come in my mouth". What a tease. To answer your question: The most sensitive point is right below the head. When I see woman with a piercing in her tongue, I can only fantasize. Keep up the good work. I would love to do the same to a woman.
2007-01-08 21:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by andywho2006 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always be willing to communicate with your partner because they will tell you what works better for them. Each person is different in the sex department so you need to learn your boyfriends likes and dislikes. I will say that the area right below the head at the top of the shaft when it's laying flat is one of the most sensitive areas. Stick with that area and rub with your hand up and down.
2007-01-08 21:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. What I like may turn your boyfriend off.
Your best action may be to ask him what he likes, while you are doing it. "Does this feel good, would you like me to continue?"
"Do you want me to do something different?"
Communication is very important for both of you.
Satisfying him is great, for him, but does he satisfy you in return?
Do you ever tell him what he's doing to you is the right thing?
I had a lover who taught me this. She was never shy in telling me if what I was doing was wrong and how to make it right. It made me a better lover and made her a happy woman.
2007-01-08 21:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mike A F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having both of y'all hook up drunk...or at least you. You will go for it more naturally and be more spontaneous in hooking up and more ambitous. But not too drunk or you'll just vomit everywhere and that DEFINITELY won't please him. Then when you hook up in the future, you'll remember what you did differently and won't be so afraid to do it since you've tried already. If your not for that, try licking food like whiped cream off his you know what...or if he's an athlete wear his jersey or uniform or whatever with tight bikers...my bf used to go CRAZY when i was in his football jersey with tight spandex on. Be sexy and have fun. If he doesn't enjoy it he's not worth your time or effort.
2007-01-08 21:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by susie q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your tongue instead of your lower lip while your sucking. Start slow and create a vacuum sensation. It takes a little practice and it's worth it. It will be, as you say, as good as it could be. Also, consider ice cubes. And don't be afraid to explore neighboring areas. Good Luck!
2007-01-08 21:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Albatross 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever wondered if there is more to a successful relationship then just blowjobs and sex? maybe hes one of those sentual guys that just like to hang out and not be too active (i think you should ask him though)
2007-01-08 21:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Dan The Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband says suck the head and stroke the rest. dont be afraid to ask him how it feels or what he likes. and also, how is the oral he gives you? does he need direction as well? if you are open enough to perform these acts, you should be comfortable communicating about it. good luck!
2007-01-08 21:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by lucia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know how to really help you try how to sites that might help sorry and also try asking him what hed like and how he likes it that might work.
2007-01-08 21:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn' matter what anyone here likes best, what matters is what YOUR guy likes best. Ask him about it...have him tell you what he likes and how he likes it. Each guy will be a little different so don't treat all partners (or penii) alike.
2007-01-08 21:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask your bf about what he likes and if hes moaning and stuff when you do it, breathin deeply then hes enjoyin it. make sure you use your hands as well and concentrate on the head, but give the shaft attention too
2007-01-08 21:26:26 · answer #11 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋