i want my girlfriend back?

Question

how can i get my girl back we broke up cuz she feels i like her more then she likes me and i know inside she loves me the same..she is just confused..is there any thing out girls out there can help me with to get her back..what do i do??

Answer 1

You need to sit down and talk to her.
Good Luck

Answer 2

Breaking up is hard to do. We've all been through it and somehow survived. But there are a few of us who can't seem to let go. How can you win your ex back? And do you even want to?

Steps
1.Create some space between yourself and the ex. After taking the time to let your ex know you wish things could be better and you need some time, stop all phone calls, emails, text messages, etc.
2.Take some time to reflect on your own life. What improvements can be made? Be honest with yourself. Have you been selfish? Demanding? Argumentative? Angry? Jealous?
3.Once you've figured out what you may have done wrong in the relationship, resist the urge to call the ex and show off your newfound self-realization. You could be wrong. Actions speak louder than words. Just BE the new improved self.
4.Invite your ex to talk to you. Express regret things weren't working out between you and ask if you can talk about it now that you have some perspective. Ask if what went wrong was related to what you've been working on. Your ex may have a different perspective!
5.If you agree on the things that went wrong are the things you've changed about yourself, offer to try again as long as both of you can work on whatever is left unresolved.
6.Don't forget your ex could have improvements to make! If they were perfect they could have helped you work on your problems while still being together. Don't just cling to your emotions of wanting to be loved, work at understanding each other.

Tips
•If you find yourself obsessed with your ex, experiment with your thoughts. Think of someone else that you like just as much or would like to know. How are they different?
•View your relationship as a third-person. If you saw how another couple were and they behaved the same as you and your ex, what is wrong? If you think it is wrong for "that other couple" then how are you viewing you?

Warnings
•Avoid rebound relationships and one-night stands. You probably won't make your ex jealous enough to come back, and you'll only be adding more confusion to the mix.
•Relationships are about two people. Any one of them can end a relationship - both have to want to be together. You can't force someone to love you.

Answer 3

If the girl does not feel love for you anymore, than just let her move on. If you give her time, maybe she may miss you, and come back. But if she doesn't come back, then get over her.
Don't waste your time pinning over her. Do things that make you feel happy, and spend time with friends.
You may feel hurt and pain for awhile, but this is only temporary, and it will get better later on. Just remember not all relationships last today. This is a fact of life.
You have alot to offer some other girl who just maybe the right one. Don't just settle for some one because they say they love you. Really get to know the person, and test out your love, before getting so involved, and then hurt again.
Be happy with who you are, and try not to let this get you down.
Work on your personality, and build up your confidence, then go out and look for someone new. Do this with friends, and you will have fun too.

Answer 4

This is a hard one....one possibility is that she may be afraid to admit her feelings and how much she actually cares for you. I think the best thing to do is sit down with her, in person, and find out what she is really truly feeling. Tell her how much you care for her and that you want to make things work. If things dont work out right away, maybe being really good friends for a little while until things work their way out is the best.

Answer 5

First off u cant say she's just confused, if she is telling u that u like her more than u somewhat has to believe that otherwise u sound like you're crazy. It's like if someone told u that they dont love u but u reply yes u do you're just confused, it sounds spooky. Just relax and take it easy she loves u but maybe she feels like you're moving too fast in a different direction that she's not ready for. If it's true love she will come back but dont push it.

Answer 6

The best way to get her back when she wants her space like this is to start dating someone else. Girls want what other girls have, and if another girl has you and is having fun with you, she'll see that she let go of a great guy. I hope you get her back.

Answer 7

Any suggestions I give you could work but it would be for the short run. State why you care for her, let her work it out for herself. Either she will realize she does care or she does not.

Remember you really answered your own question-you care for her more than she does for you.

Would it not be better to find some one who feels the same way? Believe it or not you will be in a much happier relationship.

Wish you well, however you decide to play this.

Answer 8

Hmmmm well i dont know what to tell you...girls aren't that complicated..if she told you that she doesn't want to be with you right now its probably because she doesn't ...im sorry to have to tell you that...but hey you can always talk to her and ask..flowers,candy, maybe something that will remind her of the good times you had will work... Well i hope i kinda helped..i wish you all the best...

Answer 9

Maybe she seriously doesn't love you the same way. There is actually nothing more to do than wait. Be her friend but don't push hard. That's pretty much it.

peace

Answer 10

maybe shes afriad of love, try and show her that your the right guy for her. Most girls love corny romatic things try something like that.

Answer 11

Don't go chasing her cause then she'll think your harassing her usually if the girl loves you then she'll come running back to you...