I'm a Christian, have been since I was 12. Now I'm almost 15. I've been going out with this guy for almost a year. The problem is, I told him a huge lie as an excuse for not swimming once (back in the summer!), and it elevated. Now he believes it, and, while it doesn't come up, like, ever, I feel terrible about it, especially now that I'm trying to get serious in my relationship with Christ. What do I do? Please don't judge me. Thanks to all answerers. I need serious advice.
2007-01-08 13:17:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Just don't lie any more.
Its not about perfection its about direction.
Jesus doesn't care if we are perfect, he just cares that we are trying to do better.
Love and blessings Don
2007-01-08 13:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you, then tell him, but there is a more serious problem. You are to young to date.
If you want a serious relationship with Christ, stop the premature dating and get serious with your spirituality. Finish your schooling including college, then consider the opposite sex. All in that order. The Spirituality, then schooling, then the boys. It will be a lot better for you.
2007-01-08 13:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by rangedog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know what the lie was, it's hard to give specific advice, but in general, if you feel that badly about it, confess it to this guy. Tell him you're trying to get serious about your relationship with Jesus, say you made a mistake in telling him this lie, tell him the truth, and ask his forgiveness. If he's a Christian, he should forgive you. If he's your friend, he should forgive you.
2007-01-08 13:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that I wonder about is where are you growing up at? Your Mom and Dad, they let you 'go out' at 12?
But here is the thing, if you are really getting serious in your relationship with Jesus, then pay attention to him. He's your focus, you are a sinner whether you are a Christian or not, and you are to offer yourself to his service. I repeat, HE IS YOUR FOCUS.
It seems that you are more worried about what your 'boyfriend' would think more than what God thinks. That's something we all have to work on. ( ;
If you want to talk about Jesus, or your plans to be in his service, you can e-mail me.
Your boyfriend is something that you have to talk to him about. I lean towards telling him everything. And if he has a problem about it, good.
2007-01-08 13:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. The truth always comes out in the end. And you will feel better once you have told him. Keeping your lie inside of you seems to be eating at you and will do you no good.
Good luck and God Bless.
2007-01-08 13:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 00:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big piece of the answer on which direction to take is whether you are are interested in telling him the truth to truly make for a better relationship or simply to make yourself feel better. Lying's bad -- That's why it make you feel that way. If you really want to know the answer think about what he will think learning that you lied to him. It's not about you and how you feel -- It's about him.
2007-01-08 13:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by John M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady. You are 15 years old. Why are you dating so young?
As for the lie, listen to this. You were formed in the image of God. Every time you lie, you tell all of creation that God is a liar. The bible says that we must repent if we tell lies, but I think there are deeper issues.
I think you should see this...
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=264868249898683262&
2007-01-08 13:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by dooltaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you prayed for guidence. Only God knows your heart and can set you free. If the gentleman you speak of is a christian, try praying with him for wisdom before telling the truth. I know you understand the error of your ways now, and remember God can also use these things for good and help us grow. Never underestimate youself.
2007-01-08 13:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Kenny H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why you lied about the swimming???
But, I agree with the others- just tell him why you lied- you were embarrassed? modest?
Part of being a Christian is understanding that sometimes you make mistakes- you can be forgiven.
2007-01-08 13:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should be more concerned with your boyfriend than God. God knows we make mistakes. If in your heart you are sorry for telling the lie then God will understand. Lets just hope your BF is as understanding though. :) Good Luck.
2007-01-08 13:23:02 · answer #11 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋