Why should a man gamble half of his assets on a relationship that has a 50% chance of failing?
2007-01-08 12:54:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE NEVER THINKS NEGATIVE. HE IS ALWAYS POSITIVE AND WE SHOULD BE. REST IS IN THE HAND OF GOD.
2007-01-08 14:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He shouldn't. Get a prenuptial agreement. Everyone who get's married thinks their relationship is going to last forever. When it doesn't work out, the woman has the advantage. Remember that marriage is a business agreement. It's a legal contract. I've been married for a long time and never been divorced but after seeing what some others have gone through, I'd never do it again. Nothing against women, but the deck is stacked in their favor in a divorce.
2007-01-08 21:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Carman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, We are optimists to the core and we look at the 50% chance of it being a success! any marriage is a compromise and you start working at it abd increase the chances to 60 % then 70% and keep improving by the day! Try to understand your spouse, be commited and honest and give love and thus strive for 100% success! If you achieve this in one life then you are a winner and if not, better luck next time, if any!
2007-01-12 00:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by bhatrax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get into a car when there's a chance that you could get into a crash? Why go outside when there's a chance that you could get robbed or killed? Why go down a flight of stairs when there's a chance that you fall and get hurt? Life is full of risks as well as many rewards. If you choose to live your life scared and miss out on all it has to offer, you're going to have a pretty sad and lonely life. There's more to marriage that just a divorce rate. If you choose wisely, you could be one of the lucky 50% that have a good and happy one.
2007-01-08 21:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hopefully, what he gets, is to spend his life beside the woman he loves. they can be close, lean on each other, have someone in the world who will love and support them. they may be blessed with children,can have a happy life together. talk over the subject of pre nuptiual agreements, if both agree, then thats one thing less to worry about. i would sign one. i wouldn't be mad or insulted. most people think its ok. just part of todays modern life.if you ever find someone you truly love, all this won't make any difference, i think.
2007-01-09 00:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by cee jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is rather a dismal way of thinking All relationships have to be worked at. This means laughing together, communicating, standing by each other, no matter what, treating each other as equals. One has to keep the relationship alive. If you go in with a positive attitude then you will survive, if not, then of course it is doomed right at the start. With an attitude like that, I would not bother to get married
2007-01-08 21:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
This feeling comes only if you are not happy in marriage or had a broken relationship. But if you are happy, you will see the positive side of it and of course, if you have children to dot on, it will be heaven here on earth.
2007-01-09 10:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by sonal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not sure, sometimes you get a trophy, as in trophy wife. one time at the olympics i watched this guy win a trophy or was it a medal.
he then had to split his trophy in half with his wife
2007-01-08 21:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by neff8684 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids.
2007-01-09 07:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you open your left hand so that it forms an "L" and you open your right hand to form a backwords "L" put them together so that your thumbs and index finger touch, that way you have it with you anytime you both agree on.
2007-01-08 21:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he views it like that...then I agree, why should he, it's hardly going to work is it?
2007-01-08 20:58:35 · answer #11 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋